kitty99b Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 Hmmm... I was hoping the ladies would disagree with me. I have this funny feeling that it relates strongly to what our society values in men. Actually I don't think it has to do with what society values...I work as a model for promos agencies and I get the chance to meet more people than many because of that. I go to exclusive parties, clubs, conventions, bars, ect..I have yet to meet a man who first looks in my eyes instead of my boobs and who believes a woman can be both atractive and intelligent.
Author peace_pipe Posted August 14, 2007 Author Posted August 14, 2007 You act like women control relationships... you do realize that the overall success or failure of a relationship balances mainly on the guy. No, I didn't. Thanks for the awekening words on nonsense. Where do you get your information from? I'll have to make sure I steer clear of that source.
Kamille Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 I guess many of us are suggesting that the reason women pass you up over and over again is because you need to improve the way you interact with people. Start here. Try, for instance, to answer the next few posters in a polite respectul way. Take their points into considerations and leave sarcasm and insult out. Good luck!
Author peace_pipe Posted August 14, 2007 Author Posted August 14, 2007 I have yet to meet a man who first looks in my eyes instead of my boobs and who believes a woman can be both atractive and intelligent. Well, here's a first. Nice to meet you. But I must warn you, I judge people to the extent that I allow them to be close to me. I'm very bad.
Cobra_X30 Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 One last time for the divorcees... Being divorced is evidence of poor decision making skills, period! I think the point is that since you've never had a successful relationship... your not really qualified to say that while excluding yourself. I want to know if the girl I am with now cheated on her ex. If she did, she is gone, period. That is judgement, that is my choice. Get over it. Heck yeah... you'd be a retard not to.
kitty99b Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 not to create any more controversy...I have to say that I like men who are driven and thrive for success. I don't think materials things are that important but it does matter (i dont mean to sound surpeficial but it provides a certain amount of security, should things ever go wrong I'd like to be with someone who could take care of me), I want to be with someone who knows how to work hard and achieve his goals. if it wasn't for some rude coments pp has said I'd say he is indeed a good catch. but again there is more to it as well...the character of the man matters most.
Author peace_pipe Posted August 14, 2007 Author Posted August 14, 2007 Why did you make it a point to say you owned TWO CARS? I simply stated that I had two cars. I didn't say what kind they were or go into detail about how great it is that I do. I simply added it for contrast to compare to "losers" who have none.
Kamille Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 Hmmm... I was hoping the ladies would disagree with me. I have this funny feeling that it relates strongly to what our society values in men. I disagree with you! I find people actually match the way I choose to perceive them. If I treat them like respectable human beings, they act like respectable human beings. If I expect them to treat me badly - they will. Peace, maybe this is your solution. Start treating women like respectable human beings instead of untrustworthy drama queens. You'll see, the untrustworthy ones will weed themselves out. At least that's what's been happening to me.
Author peace_pipe Posted August 14, 2007 Author Posted August 14, 2007 not to create any more controversy...I have to say that I like men who are driven and thrive for success. I don't think materials things are that important but it does matter (i dont mean to sound surpeficial but it provides a certain amount of security, should things ever go wrong I'd like to be with someone who could take care of me), I want to be with someone who knows how to work hard and achieve his goals. if it wasn't for some rude coments pp has said I'd say he is indeed a good catch. but again there is more to it as well...the character of the man matters most. That is the first time you didn't take me out of context! Kudos! Then we totally agree but didn't know it. I want to go on record in agreement with what you said here. Problem is, I am not seeing this behavior out of women anymore. It seems to be apparent in my life and some of those around me. Now I am not saying every woman is a loser magnet, but there just seems to be more otherwise "good" women with losers guys than should be.
Trialbyfire Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 OP, you are alone for a reason. You need to work on yourself before you become a real catch.
Cobra_X30 Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 Actually I don't think it has to do with what society values...I work as a model for promos agencies and I get the chance to meet more people than many because of that. I go to exclusive parties, clubs, conventions, bars, ect..I have yet to meet a man who first looks in my eyes instead of my boobs and who believes a woman can be both atractive and intelligent. Did'nt you just prove my point? Yeah, I used to sit up in that scene a little too. I'm going to tell you rightnow that your not at that party because you rocked the SAT's. Guys will treat you different when your modeling there.
directx Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 Now I am not saying every woman is a loser magnet, but there just seems to be more otherwise "good" women with losers guys than should be. What makes them "loser" guys, exactly? Do you know everyone of these guys personally? And do you really want a woman that goes out with a "loser"?
Author peace_pipe Posted August 14, 2007 Author Posted August 14, 2007 I disagree with you! I find people actually match the way I choose to perceive them. If I treat them like respectable human beings, they act like respectable human beings. If I expect them to treat me badly - they will. Peace, maybe this is your solution. Start treating women like respectable human beings instead of untrustworthy drama queens. You'll see, the untrustworthy ones will weed themselves out. At least that's what's been happening to me. I totally agree. In fact, I feel like I have approached women with respect when dating. The fact is, I feel like I have single-handedly weeded every woman out I have dated in the last 3 years based on mutual respect! Honestly! I have gone no contact with so many it makes my head spin.
kitty99b Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 I don't think being rude to each other is going to solve anything. Everyone here is simply expressing their opinions and ideas to enlighten pp in his current issue. I think all opinions and ideas should be respected and takend into consideration. rudeness is unecessary!
directx Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 I simply stated that I had two cars. I didn't say what kind they were or go into detail about how great it is that I do. I simply added it for contrast to compare to "losers" who have none. I realize it's a complex thought process for you to understand, so take your time. Take a deep breath and read it again. BTW - there is a such thing as a "loser". We all know a few. Why does it matter if someone has a car or not? You made this significant, not me. You use it for comparison, so it has some value in your mind. Its not that complex like you said, but it must be for you because you don't even understand what you are saying. Many many people that live in NYC don't have cars. Are they all losers too? " BTW - there is a such thing as a "loser". We all know a few." Hmm. I didn't until today.
Author peace_pipe Posted August 14, 2007 Author Posted August 14, 2007 OP, you are alone for a reason. You need to work on yourself before you become a real catch. I think I will pass on becoming your concept of a "catch". Conformists really aren't my style anyway.
kitty99b Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 That is the first time you didn't take me out of context! Kudos! Then we totally agree but didn't know it. I want to go on record in agreement with what you said here. Problem is, I am not seeing this behavior out of women anymore. It seems to be apparent in my life and some of those around me. Now I am not saying every woman is a loser magnet, but there just seems to be more otherwise "good" women with losers guys than should be. Well then it is obvious you're going to all the wrong places to meet these women...why don't you try some diff places? to be honest I think you'll meet the right woman when you stop looking for her
directx Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 Well then it is obvious you're going to all the wrong places to meet these women...why don't you try some diff places? to be honest I think you'll meet the right woman when you stop looking for her Thats really good advice! I would do that! Seriously!
Author peace_pipe Posted August 14, 2007 Author Posted August 14, 2007 " BTW - there is a such thing as a "loser". We all know a few." Hmm. I didn't until today. INTERNET FIGHT!!! OMG someone called me a loser on the internet! Noticed how I intentionally refrained from calling you one in my previous post. Now obvioulsly people who live in major metropolitan areas have various means of travel. Did I say, people who use public transportation are losers? Wouldn't it be rational to think that I was talking about those people who have no cars due to drinking or because they spend all their money frivolously??? Or the 30 year old who is still working at jobs they could have obtained out of high school? LOSER!
kitty99b Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 Did'nt you just prove my point? Yeah, I used to sit up in that scene a little too. I'm going to tell you rightnow that your not at that party because you rocked the SAT's. Guys will treat you different when your modeling there. you know what I think of these guys? closed minded and judgemental!! it's their immaturity to think outside the box that prevents them from finding what they are looking for.
Trialbyfire Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 I think I will pass on becoming your concept of a "catch". Conformists really aren't my style anyway. What I see you lacking in a big way is depth of emotion and character. When I say depth of emotion, you only see yourself. There is no concept of someone else within your narrow scope of things that matter. You can mouth the words but not understand them. Without this depth of emotion, which is a form of generosity, you will never have character and will always be a cheap man, thus not categorized as a catch.
directx Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 INTERNET FIGHT!!! OMG someone called me a loser on the internet! Noticed how I intentionally refrained from calling you one in my previous post. Now obvioulsly people who live in major metropolitan areas have various means of travel. Did I say, people who use public transportation are losers? Wouldn't it be rational to think that I was talking about those people who have no cars due to drinking or because they spend all their money frivolously??? Or the 30 year old who is still working at jobs they could have obtained out of high school? LOSER! Nobody called you anything. Everything is not about you you know. Don't take me out of context please! So you know all the jobs these 'losers' have that steal women from you? What do you do, just ask? Are do you know all them previously? And what jobs are those that you are talking about? And how can someone as so accomplished and successful as you simply cannot not figure out why 'losers' are better than you at getting women? Figure out why the 'losers' are better at getting women than you, and do something about it!
directx Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 What I see you lacking in a big way is depth of emotion and character. When I say depth of emotion, you only see yourself. There is no concept of someone else within your narrow scope of things that matter. You can mouth the words but not understand them. Without this depth of emotion, which is a form of generosity, you will never have character and will always be a cheap man, thus not categorized as a catch. Now THAT'S the thread of the DAY!
kitty99b Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 What I see you lacking in a big way is depth of emotion and character. When I say depth of emotion, you only see yourself. There is no concept of someone else within your narrow scope of things that matter. You can mouth the words but not understand them. Without this depth of emotion, which is a form of generosity, you will never have character and will always be a cheap man, thus not categorized as a catch. I have to disagree here. It seems to me that there is a big misunderstanding going on here. PP just seem like that to me all he is saying is that he doesn't understand why women choose other men over him...men who has less to offer...at least thats what i got. and to answer that i will say (again) that the reason being is probably because those men are offering them something that you're not...i don't know what that might be but you should look back to try to find out for yourself.
StayClose Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 maybe you should expand your options some more. Have you ever dated non american women? spanish women complement well with american men...for example try brazil, the ratio of women per man is like 15!! Ummm.... you're saying the population of Brazil is more than 93 percent female and less than 7 percent male????
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