Confused85 Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 Its a couple of questions in here, please help me!! Me and a friend was talking.......What is the difference in dating someone because "it is something to do" or "something for the mean time"? A lil prelude: Me and my boyfriend were "seeing" each other for about a year and a half before he made me his girlfriend, but during us "seeing" each other he was seeing this other girl too(among other girls), but this girl he has been seeing for 8 YEARS!!! From what I do know things started getting bad with them, and they stopped talking for a little while, during their bad time, and HIS bad time ( he lost his job and he was really sad) he made me his girlfriend, which I was REALLY HAPPY because I was always doing the pursuing when it came to him, he acted like he didnt care during that year and a half we were just "seeing" each other, but so he made me his girlfriend, because i was about to leave him alone, and told him so. Well a couple of months ago, (I was snooping)I saw him text that girl (the 8 years one) BEGGING her for friendship!!! For a month they were going back and forth talking about their feelings and so forth, and one thing stuck out to me he told her "they needed to regrow in their friendship"(why would he want to RE-grow his friendship with another woman (somes to find out this woman has been his best friend as well, shes like who he talks too about EVERYTHING!! ) fast forwarding to NOW, they talk everyday I think, she started coming over to his house more, like I guess doing things like they used to (Its like in the course of these months, they have got back to what they "used to be" but IM HIS GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!!! Is she still just a friend? Or was she ever just a friend? My friend told me I was always something to do, and me being his girlfriend is something to do, given the fact that I help with his bills too..She said I'm his GIRLFRIEND in "name only"??!!! And that the woman is his prob GIRLFRIEND in his mind and heart!??!! What do you guys think of this? HELP!
Enema Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 Doesn't sound like the guy has any feelings for you. Your post makes it sound like you're nothing to him but a hole and he "made you his girlfriend" only because you were going to leave, not because he really cares. Do yourself a favour and find someone who gives a damn about you and your feelings.
Author Confused85 Posted August 14, 2007 Author Posted August 14, 2007 Doesn't sound like the guy has any feelings for you. Your post makes it sound like you're nothing to him but a hole and he "made you his girlfriend" only because you were going to leave, not because he really cares. Do yourself a favour and find someone who gives a damn about you and your feelings. What do you mean a hole? Why do you say he doesnt have feelings? I would think that he does if he wanted to be with me
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