AngryHeartache Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Hehe, thought I'd make this thread for the fun of it. And you never know...it could help myself, or somebody else out! Make a list (as long as you want...) of personal signs you like someone, and don't like someone in a romantic way. Obviously coming out and saying it works best eventually, but what about if you don't want to say just yet? If I like someone(some are pretty cliche): I'll giggle and laugh a lot. I can't help it, It's like I turn into a schoolgirl again. But if I catch myself doing it, I'll try to lessen it so it's not annoying, lol. I'll also laugh at your unfunny jokes, because I'll find them sweet. Lots of eye-contact. Doesn't really matter if I'm shy around you, I still make lots of eye-contact, can't help it. And I'll hold the gaze. I personally don't do the whole "look then look away" thing. I just find myself looking at that person a lot, sometimes even when other people are talking, lol. I get extra fidgety. I am quite a fidegty person anyway, but if I am attracted to you...I will get even worse. I think it's a natural thing for people to do? But yeah, I'll fidget about with my clothes, hair, lips, anything around me...move about in my chair a lot...you know. Smile...LOTS. Because I can't help it, I'm enjoying your company. And/or thinking about having sex with you, ha. VERY touchy-feely. I sometimes catch myself at it, and think "omg, stop...not so much" haha. But this esp. applies if you're my "friend" I will just touch you a lot, play with your hair, put my head on your shoulders, ask for hugs, you know...the obvious stuff. I will always engage you into conversation. And I'll ask lots of questions about you, what you like to do, your work, hobbies, etc. I will also show lots more interest in what you have to say, and may make it obvious the other people don't really matter as much. If you're my friend, I will invite myself to go somewhere with you. Haha. Like, I know you're going somewhere..."oh, I'll come along too...see you then/there" *wink* I've actually found it to work to my advantage so far. Guys seem to like that confidence...and if I've only just met you, or a couple of times and you are on the friend level - I will hint that I want to go somewhere with you, without actually coming out as saying it. I will ask to borrow something/let you borrow something. Good way in making sure I'll see you again I'll simply pay you compliments. And mean it! I seem to mention sexual things, and joke about them. Like, say this person I like say something that could be taken sexual, I'll make a joke outta it like, "I bet you do" or "I would" Without sounding like a whore, you know... I'm sure there's loads more, but next... If I don't like someone... I will make very little eye-contact, and be sure of this. I know that eye-contact is a massive thing...so I'll make sure I hardly ever look you straight into the eye, or look at your crotch I'll make it known that I'd rather listen in on other peoples conversations, and look around the room than look at your face! I will kind of make a less-than-half-assed laugh, when you try to be funny. And probably roll my eyes. Make sure I don't touch you!! Will be disgusted if you make any sexual remarks, so will just look at you like, "**** off" Will make responses such as "mhm", "yeah" without even looking at you, while you're having a "conversation" with me. I will find any excuse to move to the other end of the table, etc. Say "nah, thanks" to a drink/dance Talk about an ex, or some other male to throw you off. But if we're actually friends, I'll just tell you gentley! Those things above are if you're like a stranger...
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