DLFresh Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Tempted to check myspace!!!! I really need some words of encouragement here - It has been over 2 months of no contact with me and my ex - I still have good days and bad days - still think a lot about her - I am so tempted to check her myspace page - i did about a month ago, and it made me feel worse - For some reason, i have been really tempted to check it again - please help!!!! thanks!
CrazyPanda Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 think about this to yourself, what do you have to gain by looking at her myspace? If she's happy being alone or with someone else, will it make matters better or worst? If she's sad and depress, would it make you feel bad or better? Nothing really good can come out of looking at myspace. You said before that it made you feel worst when you checked. It will just happen to you again if you do.
Double D Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 Dont do it! Crazy Panda is 100% right it will only make you feel worse and nothing to gain. I did the same thing and boy I said not again and Im keeping to it. Keep going and hang in there!
Reactor Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 The above two are right, don't do it. Even if shes only having 'fun' with other girley mates it will still hurt. I did it, next day I was writing her an e-mail crying out my feelings....AGAIN! (and she broke up with me!!) Jeez, 2.5 months of no contact went down the pan. What a fool I was then, but never, ever again. Trust me, move on and let time heal the wound. You probably lie in bed awake at night waiting for it to go away, but when it does go away you'll not really know it has...if you get me. xD You'll just stop thinking about that person. Relax, take a deep breath and say 'Its over' to yourself everytime you think about that person.
Curious139 Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 Agree totally - don't do it. All that will happen is you'll refresh the pain. I'm not too clever either - find myself googling my ex-love just for some hint of her. I already know she hardly exists on the net but......... And it hurts every time. So - don't do it. Find a strategy to avoid thinking about her. One way is to put a rubber band around your wrist and snap it every time the thought comes up. Me - I squeeze my earlobe. Hurts slightly and clears my mind.
funnyfarm Posted August 20, 2007 Posted August 20, 2007 Boy, am I with you!! For me, it's the stupid Facebook. Dreaded thing is how I found out more stuff than I ever needed to know and drove my ex and I apart for good as he felt I was invading his privacy. I have spent dumb amounts of time looking at his new girlfriend's site....all the attention getting pictures she puts on there make me roll my eyes and grimace at what the hell my ex is doing with her...but, the end result is always the same....sadness on my end, especially knowing as not too long ago, he had a picture of us as his profile picture:( Part of me wants to cancel my own Facebook so I'm not even remotely connected to the site anymore. So...like the others said, DON'T DO IT!!!!! Like a friend of mine said to me, think about the possible consequences of your planned actions...if you don't like the possible consequences, don't carry out the action. Boy....there sure are some times I could have used that advice:rolleyes:
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