alpha70 Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Quick story.....I confronted her about some dishonesty and she freaked out me...gave me my house keys back, deleted me from her life, and picked up the rest of her things(BBQ, etc) this weekend and said about 2 words to me in the process. The relationship for all purposes is over............I want to gain some closure on my end. I believe she was seeing an ex who she says are just friends so here it is.....I will send this on Wednesday. Just wanted to apologize to you for how I handled the situation concerning your relations with Craig. It wasn't cool, and I'm sorry that it got out of control and for the way it ended......not my intention. It does not matter to me anymore if it's just a friendship or something more because that is your business and yours alone....it's cool. I am not at all a jealous person and I know you know that. It does no good to rehash all of that anyway. It's water under the bridge, and is of no concern. I truly wish the best for you and Lauren. I just wanted to clear my conscience of any ill will that I might have held onto.........I'm good to go. Thanks for listening : - ) What do you think? Direct to the point but not wimpy. ??????
AriaIncognito Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 The fact that you're mentioning it at all to her in the letter, means it's "not cool" to you. I'd not bother sending the letter. All it will do is open your next can of worms, instead of helping move forward.
Author alpha70 Posted August 13, 2007 Author Posted August 13, 2007 So I'll take off the it's cool type of things off of it. I do want to go out with a clean slate with no ill feelings and this is my way of doing that. I'm not putting blame on anyone, just saying what happened happened and I'm sorry for handling it the way I did....moving on.
AriaIncognito Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 I think you should take it all out of it. IMHO sending a letter doesn't provide any closure, all it does is make you wonder: 1.) did she get it? 2.) will she reply? 3.) if she replies what will she say? 4.) if she replies, what should I say back? etc etc I'd not send the letter at all.
Author alpha70 Posted August 13, 2007 Author Posted August 13, 2007 Thanks for the feedback! I've WOKEN this morning and realized she's a complete idiot and DOES NOT deserve an email. It would have shown her that I gave a donkeys behind what she thought, etc..etc....no need for all of that. My silence is the best weapon I have! Thanks!
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