Yellowboy Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Nice to meet you all, this is my first post here. So I started seeing this girl, she is 2 years younger than me. When I asked her out, she just broke up her boyfriend. It seems they still have things to settle between themselves, and she doesn't really talk much about it to me. Their relationship lasted 3 years I think, but it's been rocky for a long time from what I heard...both wanted to break up many times but it never happened until now. So she basically talks about her problems with her new friends but not to me. Btw, these new friends are basically my friends...she entered my friend's circle and that's how I met her. What is up this? Is she just not being open to me, or is she being considerate by not trying to throw her baggage onto me? On one hand I guess it's nice that I don't have to deal with that, but sometimes we meet and she looks so depressed and it sucks that she doesn't tell me anything. I'm also a bit annoyed by the fact that she goes hanging out with my friends and neither her or my friends tell me about it...is there something going on here?
boyboy Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 I think you're over analyzing this. You should be GLAD that she's not talking about her ex with you. In my opinion it shows that she respects yours feelings and dosen't view you as just a "friend."
Author Yellowboy Posted August 13, 2007 Author Posted August 13, 2007 My friend also told me the same thing. It's just that she makes lot of guy friends and I don't trust some of my friends in the circle. That's where my concern roots from. But that's perhaps for another thread...
jusified Posted September 4, 2007 Posted September 4, 2007 Hahaha, this girl sounds like my ex-girlfriend. The truth is dude, if there is baggage and she dosn't discuss with you or any of her oldfriends its because she is ashamed and feel like she is going to be judged. She also probably knows shs did something wrong and hence rather talk to NEW friends who have no idea what her previous relationship was like and tell her things she wants to hear. I learnt from my ex that not everything a girl tell you is true and certain girls like to hid things and tell you things that make them look good and make the situation they get themselves into justified.
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