Arizona100 Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Hey you all Was talking with mister "I don't want to commit" today, we had a good time but anyway, I have a question.. Why do men keep talking about the size of their penis? I feel like he's insecure about it since he brags a lot about it. Kind of off topic, didn't see any forum for that.. beside it can be a fun subject to relax
lino Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Most guys are insecure about their penis size so that's why many talk about it.
Yamaha Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Many men are insecure because they have this opinion that women want to be with guys that are hung big. If you equate your maleness by the size of your d*ck then it is bound to cause anxiety.
Trialbyfire Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 For the same reason women talk about their double-Ds.
Citizen Erased Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 For the same reason women talk about their double-Ds. I don't think I have ever come across women talking about the sizes of their breasts as much as I have with men talking about penis size. But hey, why does it really matter? A guy can be hung like a horse and still be crap in bed It's how you use it, not what you have, that's important
Trialbyfire Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 I don't think I have ever come across women talking about the sizes of their breasts as much as I have with men talking about penis size. But hey, why does it really matter? A guy can be hung like a horse and still be crap in bed It's how you use it, not what you have, that's important They can be trained.
AriaIncognito Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 For the same reason women talk about their double-Ds. I hardly ever talk about my double-d's. hahahaha :lmao::lmao:
Trialbyfire Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 I hardly ever talk about my double-d's. hahahaha :lmao::lmao: Hey, fine then. I'll discuss yours because I don't have them. Btw, great avie. LOL.
LikeNoOther Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 I don't have double-d's either! I don't talk about the size of breasts with my girlfriends and funny enough, I haven't come across any man that talks about his penis size. Could it be that the male friends I have are happy with their size or just shy?
Trialbyfire Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 They must be holding back for your sake. It's standard locker-room bragging/discussion, regardless if they can back it up or not.
Trialbyfire Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 The reason I say this is that I have a group of close male and female friends who I went to school with. Some of them have married each other but we still all get together. You have no idea how racy the discussion gets sometimes, when you have married couples involved. The guys do not hold back. I swear nothing is sacred.
LikeNoOther Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Could it be it's where I am from? Asians tend to be a little close-minded. Not me though. I was brought up by my parents to not be afraid to say anything or discuss anything. Some of my guyfriends are all up for talks/discussions on sex etc but never do they say anything about the size of their penis!! Where else my girlfriends, they will talk about the size of their bfs' penis...
Trialbyfire Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 It's possible although one of my closest g/fs is asian and she's all out there, probably the worst of the bunch when it comes time to discussing things you shouldn't be discussing. But she was born and raised in North America, so this might be why she's not traditional.
LikeNoOther Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 True. Most of my friends are open-minded as well, I would say because of the way we were brought up. We still hold on onto our culture and traditions but at the same time, we're more liberal than some of our Asian counterparts. Usually, my race is close-minded but when we're (my friends and I) with the right crowd - all hell will break loose! We can talk about anything and everything! My father was a diplomat in the UK so my family were there for a few years and when they got back, my parents had me. I don't really speak my native language, I'm good at it but most of the time, we converse in English. A lot of what they have learnt and embraced there in the UK, they taught each and every one of us siblings. We're more open than any of my parents' relatives and I'm actually glad about it!
Mahatma Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 I have known girls who like to talk about the size of their butts, but nothing about these double d's... I keep my information to myself, but I even have another male friend who is always telling me that girls tell him that he's the biggest they've seen (I'm a male) This almost always = insecurity. edit: Since us guys think about sex and these things all the time, many of us assume you spend your days and nights imagining our penis sizes.
LikeNoOther Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 LOL - trust me, women have a lot more to imagine about! I can't speak for everyone else but penis size is the last thing on my mind...
Author Arizona100 Posted August 13, 2007 Author Posted August 13, 2007 Yes well I'm thinking if he talks so much about it, I bet he thinks it's not big enough or he has a huge ego but I doubt thats what it is. I find it funny. Why is it such a big deal? I mean unless a guy fits the definition of "micro penis", who wants to be with a donkey anyway? Nuh uh dont answer that
LucreziaBorgia Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Why guys brag about size? A few reasons: Some guys brag about having a big one, because they are socialized to think that all women want and get off on huge c*cks (regardless of how many women say that sometimes too big ones can hurt) - and they want you to want him. Male competition - big penis = more masculine Insecurity - some men talk a big game because they want everyone around them to think they have a huge c*ck, and will have a greater respect, etc. for them because of that. Some men really do have a huge c*ck and are proud of it and will tell anyone who listens that theirs is huge.
nicki Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Any guy who says he has a big d*ck is a big di*ck. Much better to be surprised by one, especially when it's attached to a guy who doesn't feel the need to tell everyone he has one. I agree, a big guy can be "trained." But, really, I think most guys talk about it because they are insecure. My ex boyfriend, who was average and very adequate, always asked me if he was too small. He wanted to be sure he pleased me. I blame porn and men's magazines and the millions of ads for penis enlargement flooding emails everywhere. When a guy talks about how big his penis is, I yawn and look at my watch. Or I say, "People usually talk a lot about things they don't have."
nicki Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Oh, and when the ex asked me if he was too small, I'd just smile and say "Now you've got me thinking about that monster in your pants. Better whip it out so I can give it a kiss." Worked every time to make him feel like the man he was!
StayClose Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 This must be a generation thing. I'm in my 40s and in my experience, men talkking about their OWN penis size is pretty rare. I guess I wouldn't want to embarass friends who are on the small size. Women do discuss their breats size occasionally (mostly when they aren't aware that men are listening), but for my generation our penis sizes are mostly personal secrets.
Author Arizona100 Posted August 13, 2007 Author Posted August 13, 2007 I used to think that the saying "I rather have a man who knows how to use it than a guy with a huge one who doesn't know how to use it" was bs to make men feel better. Well, in my experience, that is true. Stop watching porns indeed, or at least, stop thinking that is the norm Cause it isn't !
Trialbyfire Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 I see no reason not to have it all. Why settle for the average or even the slightly above average, when there are more than enough men out there who are outstanding AND more than capable.
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