Passionate Posted August 12, 2007 Posted August 12, 2007 Hey Guys/Gals , Do you have any ‘feelings’ for your Ex-BF/GF ??? Any ‘feelings’ good/bad??? I think I will always miss my Ex-BF because of his unlimited emotional support to me whenever I faced bumper in my life / family / studies / etc. Do you ever miss your BF ??? Do you have any feelings for your Ex – BF beside anger, frustration???
sb129 Posted August 12, 2007 Posted August 12, 2007 Whenever I think about my most recent ex (the one before my BF now) it still makes me a little mad that I fell for all of his BS, and that I let myself be treated so badly by him. I think it translates into irritation at myself rather than bitterness towards him. If I never lay eyes on him again it will be too soon. He is completely and utterly out of my life, and I am very happy with my life as it is now. I am also moving to the other side of the world next year so chances of ever bumping into him again are slim.
LikeNoOther Posted August 12, 2007 Posted August 12, 2007 My previous ex-bf is a gentleman. Very well brought up and treats a lady like a lady should be treated. We broke up 3 and half years ago and believe it or not, I only got over him about early this year. For that 3 years, I still had feelings for him. Good. And bad. Mostly good. That's pretty normal, I think - knowing that we hd to break up because of his mother. Bad feelings would be because he didn't stand up for the woman he claimed he loves so much. Maybe he did try but a lot of ppl said that he didn't try enough and honestly, I agree with them. BUT now, I'm over him. In fact, I am busy helping him to hook up with this girl he likes. I thought I couldn't find anyone better but I did. I'm just glad that I finally got over him. It was very hard for me because we had made plans to get married and so much more and it all came crashing down just because his mother changed her perception of me through a third party. Well, that's life...
sao2 Posted August 12, 2007 Posted August 12, 2007 Of course, we were with our ex's for a reason. At times we might forget this but they usually had many good qualities and may have even brought out some of the best in ourselves.
CrazyPanda Posted August 12, 2007 Posted August 12, 2007 i just recently broken up with my girlfriend and currenlty going through my stages of acceptance. I still care and love her even though we're not together. She knows that. I would say our relationship was a mutral breakup, so we are able to stay friends and connected, at the moment. I still have have good feelings for her. There is no real hate or frustration with us. Things change though...
livebuzzwords Posted August 12, 2007 Posted August 12, 2007 my last recent ex and i decided to stop seeing each other but only after we had a great face to face talk about us, where were are at in life and we both realized that we both had some personal work to do. it was an amazing and refreshing experience when compared to my previous relationship and even though are paths have now separated i think of her in positive ways because of the way she and i handed it. i have been fortunate to have had this happen everytime but just once in my life so that's pretty good odds and it means that i have chosen quality individuals to share part of my life with. i am now seeing someone and life is peachy keen.
Penny99 Posted August 12, 2007 Posted August 12, 2007 I wouldn't say that I have feelings of dislike, or hate etc to any of my exes. Some simply weren't right and I don't ever really find myself thinking about, but others I'm still very fond of.
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