fray718 Posted August 12, 2007 Posted August 12, 2007 For those who remembered that guy about a month ago who I finally kicked to the curb (in summary, said he suffered from depression and anxiety and needed therapy, not ready for a relationship, then after a few weeks of going back and forth 'agreed' to be my 'boyfriend', then some bizarre thing happened and he backed away from being my bf again so out of hurt I told him it's too much and I prefer if we just stop seeing each other and stop all forms of contact....he IMed me afterward, I ignored it and we haven't had contact since)....well its been a month, but for the past month I still think bout him every day...and for the past 1.5 weeks since I heard he injured his knee and got surgery, I've had urges to email him and ask how he's doing. I don't have energy or time at this point in my career to deal with him, yet I have a soft heart. I want to focus on my work and study and I know emailing him will put me back at square one. I'm really scared I'm gonna just get weak for a moment and end up emailing him and regret it. I'm not sure what I should do...I dont want to end up doing something im gonna regret again. I've already wrote my email to him and deleted it 3 times without sending. How much longer can I go through with this? Help much appreciated.
Author fray718 Posted August 12, 2007 Author Posted August 12, 2007 Advice anyone? I'm really just ABOUT to email him right now...and I REALLY need someone now to tell me to snap out of it!!!!
Capricciosa Posted August 12, 2007 Posted August 12, 2007 I hope it's not too late. Don't do it. If it will put you at square 1, stay away. Can you just mentally send some get well vibes? You don't have to contact him if it will put you at risk, and unstable people always put us at risk.
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