Arizona100 Posted August 11, 2007 Posted August 11, 2007 You know what, stop me before I say something crazy. I am tipsy and I just got the crazy idea to tell him how I feel about him. Someone stops Arizona, my reptilian brain is all over it, my Microsoft brain tells me thats the one mistake I don't want to make. Anyhow, two beers are enough to kick me in tipsy land! Actually let me edit because I am in a ranting mood. Honesty, what the heck is that when it comes to relationship? Well let me tell you what it is in the dating world. Honestly is the get out of jail free card. Expressing positive feelings, like love/fall, usually is the best way to crash right into a big thick wall. "If I tell him maybe he'll open his eyes". Yeah right ... Honesty only means you protect yourself "hey I have been honest, told you I wasn't looking". Now let's be honest with ourselves, it's the easy way to avoid things from getting complicated too fast. Thats what honesty is. Get your cake and eat it too.
Cobra_X30 Posted August 11, 2007 Posted August 11, 2007 LOL... your contemplating a drunk dial? Nice! You realize those are super annoying. On the other hand, if you tell him it only takes 2 beers to get you on your ears, perhaps he would be more willing to take you out on the town as it wont cost him a fortune. Oh, and yes do protect yourself, because nobody will ever be able to do a better job of that than you!
Trialbyfire Posted August 11, 2007 Posted August 11, 2007 While I don't drink beer, nice to see another sipper cup person. Can I assume you're a little bitter about being honest with your feelings of caring and he was honest about not looking for something more? If so, I can relate...but...better to find out sooner than later. There's a lot of guys to wade through before you find someone worthwhile and compatible. Do yourself a favour, don't drunk dial.
Cobra_X30 Posted August 11, 2007 Posted August 11, 2007 Hey TBF, I think we may be able to put together a working equation for determining how "worthwhile" a man might be. Example Ego multiplied by 2 times Income plus attractiveness (1-10 scale) divided by number of years spent living with parents times number of failed relationships = Overall worth. This could revolutionize the world! Or generate a few laughs...
Trialbyfire Posted August 11, 2007 Posted August 11, 2007 Ego multiplied by 2 times Income plus attractiveness (1-10 scale) divided by number of years spent living with parents times number of failed relationships = Overall worth. The only problem is that I see no assets in your equation, only liabilities. Intelligence multiplied by 2 times integrity plus humour plus hp of vehicle plus strength of character divided by ego and failed relationships = Net worth What do you think?
Cobra_X30 Posted August 11, 2007 Posted August 11, 2007 TBF, That is Excellent! All we need to do is figure out how to convince the female population to use it. We may need to create a short manual of sorts. I dont think most of them are used to evaluating men on terms like strength of character or integrity. Maybe if we dressed them up a little... example $trength of character. See subliminal messaging... nice. Man its late... Im going to work on integrating our two equations, and I will start a new thread for it in the AM!
Cobra_X30 Posted August 11, 2007 Posted August 11, 2007 Hmmm... Amber votes against our equation! Not a good start!
Trialbyfire Posted August 11, 2007 Posted August 11, 2007 I think she's voting against drunk dialing... As for your marketing technique...women are a product of their environment but are also responsible for personal amendments.
Carbine Posted August 11, 2007 Posted August 11, 2007 HONESTY is the sincere expression of a person's thoughts feelings, beliefs, memories or desires. HONESTY takes strength, courage and belief in oneself. HONESTY is a clear, unbiased reiteration of the facts; it does not fall plus or minus 1 or more standard deviations above or below the norm! HONESTY is never elaborated upon, embelished or selectively represented on or for a purpose. HONESTY comes at a price; it may hurt or expose the person who choses to be honest as well as those around him/her. HONESTY is a trade-off; the gain from acting honestly cannot be understated; it's something intangible that can't really be expressed in words. HONESTY is a quality that is very easy to 'claim' and very, very difficult to truly live by!
Author Arizona100 Posted August 11, 2007 Author Posted August 11, 2007 I'm baaaack... woke up and was in a "hm wtf was i thinking" mood haha And no I didn't tell him. PHEW! Oh and btw, why did I rant? First, I am not a drinker... (we know that one). Second... and more important..my friends tried to hook me up with that guy last night and the only thing I wanted to do was to RUN. I realized I did not want another guy for now and I did not like the idea of not wanting someone else.. not ready, whatever... I hate that I have my mind set on someone. *peace of mind* get back here NOW... where the hell did you go! Ah well the no contact rule, we all know the basics uh ... that's our get out of jail free card About to go out actually, something interesting in town, for once ..
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