Author tinktronik Posted August 10, 2007 Author Posted August 10, 2007 Something doesn't seem right? The doctors that her children see don't ask them how they do in school with other children, etc? That would probably be one of the utmost important things to look into as a child psychology, so something isn't right here? I just don't put much stock in psy. that practice in a out of the way corrupt little town .And really believe most professionalls that live in this specific area do so only for the paycheck.
EnigmaXOXO Posted August 10, 2007 Posted August 10, 2007 What do I do? Give it to her straight, Tink, And get that girl some help ... or at least suggest it to her in the most tactful way you can manage. Perhaps a sit down with ALL the friends you mentioned so she won’t think you’re the only one who sees that she’s spiraling out of control. Sending the girls for counseling is usually suggested or required by the courts during a divorce, but it won’t do the situation any good if Mommy isn’t getting the emotional and/or mental help that she needs. And if the courts aren’t aware of it, they won’t recommend it. If she can’t or won’t ... it may be better in the long run for the girls to be with their Daddy.
Author tinktronik Posted August 12, 2007 Author Posted August 12, 2007 Well, I wrote G a letter from my regular email. I decided that if my concerns were valid I should not be afraid to be honest or do what I feel is best reguardless of the consequences. I had already spoken with K about my concerns so its not like she won't know who talked with G. He was aware that there was some "poisioning of the well" in reguards to his daughters and the things their mom had to say about him. But he was not aware of the extent to wich she was taking it . He was also aware that they had been removed from school with no cause , but K apparently told him the girls were kicked out of school. That is not true. He also was aware that the dr's appt.s were way over the top and had his own serious issues with that and was in agreement that it is bot some grab for attention from K as well as an attempt to fleece his wallet in copays. He confessed that he has been taking K to court for years in the best interests of the children and this is the first time he has gotten any leeway at all , a two week vacation. He knows K is unballanced and knows that her children from previous relationships were removed from her care but cannot get the records because they are sealed due to adoption. He was not aware that K was representing that the girls were gone forever or that she was threatinin suicide. Really this is all too strange. He says he wants to compile a list of questions when his head is clear. It seems as of this point I have made my descision and am going to be as honest as I can .
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