Cobra_X30 Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 Okay I know I am bringing this thread back, but for some reason this guy keeps crossing my mind. It's been about 2 weeks since we last spoke. We both are still on the dating site but my subscription ends in 2 days. I'm not sure if I should let this whole thing go or if maybe I should shoot him a short email to say hi or "wink" at him on the site. Should I do something like this or just let fate take it's course? It is almost like he and I had potential but it got messed up. Naw, let him go. The guys a douchebag. If you went on a date with me... and I liked you, your phone wouldnt stop rigining. If you do anything like wink or email... your going to put out those "desperate take advantage of me" signals. You seriously dont want that... not with a jerk like this!
uniqueone Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 or, you two met via online, this means that he is seeing other people as well and is not that into you, at least not yet. Hey, I just want to interject something here...just because people meet online doesn't mean they're seeing other people. I have four guys who want to do something with me this weekend. I don't want to do anything with them though. I have no other plans....unless you count taking my elderly aunt to a movie...... This all goes with the thinking that I see so often esp. on LS....that people HAVE to have SOMEONE. Doesn't anyone understand that some people can prefer to have no one vs. someone they don't feel they click with? Or maybe they're just not in the mood for it. Or maybe they're not over someone else. You have no idea what their reasons are.
uniqueone Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 I've just read through all the responses and WTF? I'm really taken aback by the comments I'm hearing from people. A poster saying how she blew it when she ditched him and then apologized.....the OP saying how he's mad at her and how she's been apologizing to him.... plus some other comments I read. She DIDN'T do a thing wrong. Not one thing! She has nothing to apologize for. She didn't blow it....HE did. Let's say he "accepts" her apology....what's she going tolerate next? Smoke signals? 2 am booty calls? OP, you need to turn this around.....make it about what YOU want and what meets YOUR needs...don't compromise them.
pink smartie Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 I'm going to disagree with everyone here. As things stand, you have absolutely nothing to lose. If I were in your shoes I would choose the straightfoward all-in approach rather then the meak wink one: Since phone doesn't seem to be his thing, text him or send him an e-mail and ask him out on a date. Better to have tried then to wonder forever.
birdie Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 Okay I know I am bringing this thread back, but for some reason this guy keeps crossing my mind. It's been about 2 weeks since we last spoke. We both are still on the dating site but my subscription ends in 2 days. I'm not sure if I should let this whole thing go or if maybe I should shoot him a short email to say hi or "wink" at him on the site. Should I do something like this or just let fate take it's course? It is almost like he and I had potential but it got messed up. let him go. you obviously prefer somebody who is more open/friendly/chatty. don't think this guy can give you that. In my experience people who avoid direct contact and just keep texting/emailing have all sorts of intimacy issues. I know it sounds harsh but I think it's a sure sign.
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