Well it's all over with the girl who wanted to go to AC, she met another guy

[DateAnalyzer]

I can't really get mad because she asked me out 3 times and all three times I wanted to stay in my ari-conditioned room because i'm more of a planner instead of a spontaneous. So i called last night and she was saying that she figured i wasn't interested since i turned her down 3 times in a row and now she is in the process of getting to know someone else. I have no one to blame but myself so it looks like for the remaining days of august, i will be home alone i my underwear watching DVD's. DAMM!!!

[squeak]

This is too funny, you sound like a funny guy without trying to be.

 

She kind of gave you another chance by mentioning she was getting to know someone else, hoping you'd say "no-let it be me"

 

She really must have liked you. You still have a chance with her if you act fast...

[Krytellan]

You soundlike you've come down to Earth a little bit DA... congrats!!! It's OK to take credit for what happened, but learn from it DAMMIT!!! Or else it's a wasted opportunity.

 

Good luck.

 

Get back on Craigslist

[LoveLace]

This is too funny, you sound like a funny guy without trying to be.

 

She kind of gave you another chance by mentioning she was getting to know someone else, hoping you'd say "no-let it be me"

 

She really must have liked you. You still have a chance with her if you act fast...

 

 

I agree because she might be "getting to know" someone else but that doesn't make her unavailable.

[DateAnalyzer]

This is too funny, you sound like a funny guy without trying to be.

 

She kind of gave you another chance by mentioning she was getting to know someone else, hoping you'd say "no-let it be me"

 

She really must have liked you. You still have a chance with her if you act fast...

 

 

are you saying that because she asked me out three times?

[DateAnalyzer]

I agree because she might be "getting to know" someone else but that doesn't make her unavailable.

 

 

it's the guy who she was on a date with when i called her cell phone. I asked her did she excuse herself while calling me and leaving me a message on my voicemail and she said no. she did it in front of the guy which i thought was rude-lol I know if I was him I would have probably left if a girl was arguing with another guy while she was out with me

[underpants]

Thats too bad DA,

 

Sounds like a compatibility issue.

 

You might could raise her interests in you again? I don't know. That would require some effort and...finesse.

 

Women (or at least me), like to be persued. I love to be surprized and spontaneity can be fun. Mix in an intellectual connection and ...Whalla!!!

 

(I know I spelled that wrong but I like this word and viola, just doesn't work for me)

 

Sounds like she was (maybe still is) attracted to you and did ask you 3 times to do something. I might be inclined to give up also if I were her.

 

You will get her next time tiger.

[DateAnalyzer]

Thats too bad DA,

 

Sounds like a compatibility issue.

 

You might could raise her interests in you again? I don't know. That would require some effort and...finesse.

 

Women (or at least me), like to be persued. I love to be surprized and spontaneity can be fun. Mix in an intellectual connection and ...Whalla!!!

 

(I know I spelled that wrong but I like this word and viola, just doesn't work for me)

 

Sounds like she was (maybe still is) attracted to you and did ask you 3 times to do something. I might be inclined to give up also if I were her.

 

You will get her next time tiger.

 

 

i didn't go to Alantic City with her because i was kind of nervous and never had that kind of outing with a wome before. just basically going to the movies and dinner and walk in the park but never going out of town

[LoveLace]

i didn't go to Alantic City with her because i was kind of nervous and never had that kind of outing with a wome before. just basically going to the movies and dinner and walk in the park but never going out of town

 

1st time for everything!...I've found that going out of your comfort zone once in a while is a great way to enjoy life and maybe discover more about yourself.

[JamesM]

are you saying that because she asked me out three times?

 

I think she liked/likes you. How often did you think she would take a rejection?

 

It takes guts to ask someone out, but to do it three times takes a deep feeling of something...which appears to be an attraction that could lead to something more.

 

Can you get her back? Absolutely. But it sounds like you will need to get out of the apartment and try some new adventures.

[Star Gazer]

I agree because she might be "getting to know" someone else but that doesn't make her unavailable.

 

I agree completely, but am shocked that YOU said this (given your opinion in the other thread).

[Star Gazer]

DA - have you tried speed dating? That might be a great way to get your feet wet...2 minute "dates"...meet lots of different women, get out of your comfort zone...etc.

[LoveLace]

I agree completely, but am shocked that YOU said this (given your opinion in the other thread).

 

I'm all over the road would you mind refreshing my memory?

[LoveLace]

By the way DA, women like spontaneous stuff...next time you should choose her over the air-conditioning and I bet you'd be glad you did.

[Star Gazer]

...next time you should choose her over the air-conditioning and I bet you'd be glad you did.

 

You know what's funny? I've avoided a few dates this summer (always offered alternative plans or rescheduled though) because it was too dang hot and am not a fan of sweating while sitting still. I love me some A/C too.

[LoveLace]

You know what's funny? I've avoided a few dates this summer (always offered alternative plans or rescheduled though) because it was too dang hot and am not a fan of sweating while sitting still. I love me some A/C too.

 

I definitely love AC but if I'm invited to do something cool (no pun intended) I'm always game cuz I love summer time and don't mind being hot...long as a pool or something in doors is near by to get a break...

 

Which other thread were you referring to?

[DateAnalyzer]

I think what it was is I had came home from work and took all my clothes and was relaxing, so to be invited back out, and me thinking about going back out in the heat was just something I wasn;t really feeling and she should had ask me a day before if she wanted to do a certain thing. There is no gauruntee that someone is going to be available if you called them and ask them out the same day

[sofakingmad]

3 strikes you're out i guess...

[Hazy]

She sounds like she's desperate if she's the one doing the asking out and she's asking three times.

[LoveLace]

She sounds like she's desperate if she's the one doing the asking out and she's asking three times.

 

Possibly desperate, or just liked him a whole lot, but I don't know many girls that would ask a guy out that many times...if I"m told no the 1st time I don't usually have the desire to keep asking...

[lino]

She sounds like she's desperate if she's the one doing the asking out and she's asking three times.

 

I was thinking the same. It wouldn't bother me though.

[JamesM]

I think what it was is I had came home from work and took all my clothes and was relaxing, so to be invited back out, and me thinking about going back out in the heat was just something I wasn;t really feeling and she should had ask me a day before if she wanted to do a certain thing. There is no gauruntee that someone is going to be available if you called them and ask them out the same day

 

Dude, this kind of attitude is a guarantee that you will be a bachelor. You gotta give a little to live a little.