alex434 Posted August 8, 2007 Posted August 8, 2007 HI ALL I'll get to the point lol... My girlfriend has decided as of last week saturday that she wanted to break up. This is due to the fact that we argue all the time ( mostly because when i want to talk about a problem, she decides to yell and be immature ) I begged and pleaded and we decided to just go on a break not seeing eachother for a week (ends this sunday) She wants to go to this party on saturday but i have a strange feeling i dont want her to go and drink. Shes told me that she loves me and that she only wants me and would never want or pick another guy over me ( she said this when she broke up with me ) however i feel like... well... like she is going to cheat on me on sunday, this is because, they didnt want me to go... i felt a little weird am i controlling because i dont want her to go and drink? i feel that its something im not comfortable with and she doesnt respect that. I think it has to do with trust also because sometimes i trust her and at places and things like this, i dont. Its supposed to be a kids birthday party with alcohol involved? point being i asked her not to go and she said she is... fine... i asked her not to drink and she said that she is what should i do? should i just tell her i dont trust her or should i just try and deal with it. I know that as saturday approaches i am getting more and more nervous and angry. your help would be greatly appreciated, thanks =D
Gia77 Posted August 9, 2007 Posted August 9, 2007 Its supposed to be a kids birthday party with alcohol involved? .... That part made me think that you guys are young. Are you under 21? If so, you may be too young for a serious relationship. Enjoy turning 21..It only happens once.
popey Posted August 22, 2007 Posted August 22, 2007 you will not have a strong relationship by keeping someone from going to a party. Holding on to what you want anyway possible may appeal, but the fact is that you ultimately want a relationship where you can both do you want (within reason) and enjoy and love eachother. If a simple party cannot factor into that, the problem is not the party. and btw- calmly and w/o accusation, stating your feelings is rarely a bad call.
Cad Rake Posted August 22, 2007 Posted August 22, 2007 she broke up with you because she wants to go to a party to get with some other guy. If it doesn't work out she wants you to be there as a "backup." You're playing the sucker in this one.
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