heatseeker411 Posted August 7, 2007 Posted August 7, 2007 Over the phone or in person? Over the phone, she'd be in a comfortable environment with support readily available to her, and I wouldn't feel like an ass for inviting her over just to break up with her (we only hang out at my place, never hers). In person, I'd have a chance to hug her goodbye. What do you think?
Alexandra-Girl Posted August 7, 2007 Posted August 7, 2007 Not to vent at you, but in just general. Seriously, I still can't believe people ask this question today. If you have the availability to end a relationship in person, YOU DO IT. You had sex with this woman, you loved this woman at some time. She gave you her heart, she loved you in return. Show her some freaking respect, and have some integrity. MAN UP! The only time phone is appropriate is when it is a long distance relationship. Then it is done vis-a-vis the phone. ALL texting, emailing, etc is COWARDLY and DISRESPECTFUL. Complete opposite of integrity and respect. If you are worried of her reaction - take her to a park or for a walk and EXPLAIN to her the reasons for your split with honesty. Do it in a neutral environment where she won't have the pain of seeing her break-up plastered on the walls everytime she visits the area. ALSO, provide her with some closure at the time and you won't feel the wrath as much. Alex.
Author heatseeker411 Posted August 7, 2007 Author Posted August 7, 2007 Good points all, and the park idea ain't bad either.
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