Myz_Heavenly Posted August 7, 2007 Posted August 7, 2007 So...for all that are interested, I have an update on my situation from many months ago regarding the guy who stopped contacting me for no apparent reason. (See my past threads for details...) Okay, I just moved from my home state to a state that is only a few hours from the guy for a job and against my better judgment and the advice from you guys, I texted him and asked him for closure the day that I relocated. According to him, whilst trying to get promoted and worrying about certain family members, he went through a phase where he was down and depressed and he stopped talking to everyone...family included. I already knew he hadn't been talking to his fam b/c they had been inquiring of me if I had spoken w/him during those months of silence. However, he texted me saying that he didn't want to give me closure b/c that would mean my moving on and he didn't want to let me go if it is not too late. I replied that I still cared about him, and he says he cares for me, but should I give him another chance? We are both quite busy, but it would be easier for us to see each other now that we only live 5 hours apart, compared to 12 hours...ADVICE PLEASE!!!!
loveinlife Posted August 8, 2007 Posted August 8, 2007 Its good that both of you still have feelings for each other. Looks like you have already made up your mind to see him. Best wishes for you, my ex came back to me once and it never worked out, but who knows, i think i might of pushed her away. Never know until one tries. Good luck buttercup =)
Ssheena Posted August 8, 2007 Posted August 8, 2007 Hey Myz, I remember your previous postings. I would say meet with him, keep an open mind and if you do end up getting back together make sure he knows never, ever to do that again. Lots of people get down and depressed and don't just drop off the face of the earth. I am really glad that you finally found out what was up with him though.
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