Brianna07 Posted August 7, 2007 Posted August 7, 2007 Hey I was looking for some advice- this is my first post. I was recently dumped by my first love with whom i have been with for over 4 years now. I'm still madly in love with him and this came as a shock because I thought things were going great. He says that he still loves me and he would like to work things out but he "needs his space". We live together so I understand where he is coming from but if he still loves me why is he breaking up with me? He still tells me he loves me and wants to be a close friend but i'm not sure if I could be his friend. He wants me to wait around for him to be ready to get back with me but I can;t do that either? Should I be friends and maybe things will work out or should I just move on and stop hurting over how many mixed signals he is sending me?
Grim Posted August 7, 2007 Posted August 7, 2007 Hey I was looking for some advice- this is my first post. I was recently dumped by my first love with whom i have been with for over 4 years now. I'm still madly in love with him and this came as a shock because I thought things were going great. He says that he still loves me and he would like to work things out but he "needs his space". We live together so I understand where he is coming from but if he still loves me why is he breaking up with me? He still tells me he loves me and wants to be a close friend but i'm not sure if I could be his friend. He wants me to wait around for him to be ready to get back with me but I can;t do that either? Should I be friends and maybe things will work out or should I just move on and stop hurting over how many mixed signals he is sending me? forget him. he is playing with you. he knows what he wants and im afraid its not you but he wants to keep you in reserve. let go and get on with your life
Author Brianna07 Posted August 7, 2007 Author Posted August 7, 2007 Thats what all my friends are telling me, but he is so close to me and I dont want to lose him as a friend. He says that he is still in love with me and I want to beleive him so bad after 4 years of such a great relationship. So is he just playing games? If I shut him out for a while and he really still loves do you think he may try to come back around?
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