Limerent Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 What is this really all about? If he is constantly touching you, trying to hug you, brushes his body against you, almost always in a state of constant contact with you? When he gazes intently at you, when he gets so close behind you that you can feel his breath on your neck, and he stares...at your hair, your hands, your ears, (and the other obvious parts as well ) When he just seems to radiate this heat and wants to touch your hands, your waist, your back...anything as long as he is touching you? Purposeful, needless touching, just to touch... it is like he feels compelled, almost possessed.... Not all men are like this. Some touch, but some dont touch like they want to melt into you, and absorb you into their skin. Women, I know you know what I mean. Men, I know you know too. You know there is more too it.....Let me know what you think it is... Link to post Share on other sites
Road Rage Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 It appears to be rutting season. You may want to get a few bags of deer corn just to keep him around in case it isn`t. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Limerent Posted August 7, 2007 Author Share Posted August 7, 2007 It appears to be rutting season. You may want to get a few bags of deer corn just to keep him around in case it isn`t :lmao: So thats all it is, then?? Just a simple case of pheremones? Link to post Share on other sites
Krytellan Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 Sounds to me like he's repelled by you. He must be thinking about football season. Just move on, he's obviously no good for you. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 i don't like it when someone goes this far with the affection. especially in public! it makes me uncomfortable. privately - well that is more appropriate and more fun! Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 I'm affectionate but I also need my personal space...and I'm not big on PDA... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Limerent Posted August 7, 2007 Author Share Posted August 7, 2007 i don't like it when someone goes this far with the affection. especially in public! it makes me uncomfortable. I am of that mindset as well...but for some reason, it felt so normal, it was odd.... whats more.....I felt like I wanted to do it too...But I refrained It was an absolute carnal feeling.... What the heck was that all about??? Does anyone think that in this case, the pheremone theory is true? Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 What is this really all about? If he is constantly touching you, trying to hug you, brushes his body against you, almost always in a state of constant contact with you? When he gazes intently at you, when he gets so close behind you that you can feel his breath on your neck, and he stares...at your hair, your hands, your ears, (and the other obvious parts as well ) When he just seems to radiate this heat and wants to touch your hands, your waist, your back...anything as long as he is touching you? Purposeful, needless touching, just to touch... it is like he feels compelled, almost possessed.... Welcome to my world. At least he's paying attention to you. It appears to be rutting season. You may want to get a few bags of deer corn just to keep him around in case it isn`t. :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 Are you questioning whether he's attracted to you? I would say so... Link to post Share on other sites
Grim Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 he is either a real toucher. do u no if he was like this with his past partners. becarefull though lust wears off after a while. Link to post Share on other sites
Mustang Sally Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 Sounds like he's a horndog. Good luck with that. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 Sounds like he's a horndog. Hey.. I resemble that comment.. I'm a horn dog and I not big on touching or PDA.. unless it is sex in the car... I do like touch.. just not excessive touching Stop giving us horn dogs a bad name Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 Oh.. and to the OP.. I think he is trying too hard.. He must've read some stupid book on how to touch a woman and he thinks it's sexy and cool.. Tell him that if he wants to keep having sex with you then to knock the crap off. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 I'm a touchy person. I like to touch my partner but am not big on PDA. If it's done discreetly, it can lead to a fun day and a very fun evening. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Limerent Posted August 7, 2007 Author Share Posted August 7, 2007 I think he is trying too hard.. He must've read some stupid book on how to touch a woman and he thinks it's sexy and cool.. You guys are delightful...thanks for all your responses... He's not much of a relationship book reader... But...I did talk to him about this finally...and he said: Yeah, I dont know what it is about you, I just had to touch you, its like I couldnt control myself, I never felt like that before... and then he went a step further and said this: I even had to control a situation from "popping up", and that hasnt happened since I was a young kid. It was definately a struggle. okay.... Ummm...guys...forgive me for being so forward...but...I gotta know... DOES THAT REALLY HAPPEN TO YOU??? :o (He's in his mid thirties) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Limerent Posted August 7, 2007 Author Share Posted August 7, 2007 I think he is trying too hard.. He must've read some stupid book on how to touch a woman and he thinks it's sexy and cool.. You guys are delightful...thanks for all your responses... He's not much of a relationship book reader... Tell him that if he wants to keep having sex with you then to knock the crap off. :lmao: We havent...actually...and we wont anytime soon. But...I did talk to him about this finally...and he said: Yeah, I dont know what it is about you, I just had to touch you, its like I couldnt control myself, I never felt like that before... and then he went a step further and said this: I even had to control a situation from "popping up", and that hasnt happened since I was a young kid. It was definately a struggle. okay.... Ummm...guys...forgive me for being so forward...but...I gotta know... Does that really happen to you ??? :o (He's in his mid thirties) Link to post Share on other sites
Mustang Sally Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 Do I need to draw a Venn Diagram? I did not mean to imply that all horndogs are big PDA touchers. But I do think most big PDA touchers are horndogs. (Not that there is anything wrong with that.....?) If the (clown) shoe fits.... Link to post Share on other sites
directx Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 I'm affectionate but I also need my personal space...and I'm not big on PDA... I agree with you. I always feel I am invading someones personal space with regards to touching. And PDA is so highschool... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Limerent Posted August 7, 2007 Author Share Posted August 7, 2007 Im sorry...I did not mean to imply that this was a PDA case...because it really isnt. Link to post Share on other sites
Mustang Sally Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 Im sorry...I did not mean to imply that this was a PDA case...because it really isnt. Fine, then. Thank you for the clarification. I even had to control a situation from "popping up", and that hasnt happened since I was a young kid. It was definately a struggle. But still a horndog. I rest my case. (Hope one - or both - of you is not married to someone else....) Link to post Share on other sites
directx Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 Honestly, keeping your hands to yourself is something his parents should have began teaching him when he was 3. It shows lack of respect and/or control. Period. Link to post Share on other sites
Lostgurl Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 What's PDA?? :confused: I knew someone like this... It really creeped me out. But I think it was because he came on WAY to strong WAY to fast, and I really wasn't all that attracted to him. 6th sense I guess, he turned out to be a pathalogical liar, and a stalker.... My man is touchy feely alot more than he was, and I love it. But, I wouldn't say over the top, like the OP describes. I just love snuggles. Link to post Share on other sites
directx Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 I admit I was stumped a little bit too. PDA = Public Display of Affection. (something I never got to experience in highschool...WAAAAAAAAH!) Link to post Share on other sites
Lostgurl Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 I admit I was stumped a little bit too. PDA = Public Display of Affection. (something I never got to experience in highschool...WAAAAAAAAH!) Ahhhhh Thanks direct. Neither did I for that matter, I had the same bf all the way through senior high, and he was at a college. I don't have the least problem with PDA, in fact, I love it:love: Link to post Share on other sites
IpAncA Posted August 7, 2007 Share Posted August 7, 2007 At least he's paying attention. If people don't like being touched, then I don't want to hear one person complain when they stop and begin to miss it. For all you know OP this could fade if you both are new. He might just stop or do it once in a while. But if it's REALLY bothering you I'd ask him to tone it down. At least find a middle ground. One where your both happy. This another issue I feel both people need to be on the same page about. If you don't like affection, then don't match yourself up with one who LOVES it. Find one who hates or does it once a blue moon appears. Not saying this is your case but I'm just generally speaking how I feel on this. Link to post Share on other sites
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