xPrincessx Posted August 6, 2007 Posted August 6, 2007 Hi! My Boyfriend and I are in a HUGE fight about me flirting with another guy. I told him I didnt mean to and i was sorry, i really didnt flirt with the other guy, the guy said i did and my boyfriend believes him. He said he needs 3 days without talking to me. How can i regain his trust, build it back, and start all over? Can anyone help me, it would be very helpful! God Bless!
annabelle75 Posted August 6, 2007 Posted August 6, 2007 If it is true that you never flirted with this guy and your boyfriend believes his friend over you, then it isn’t a matter of regaining his trust because you never really had it in the first place. Just be honest with him that you don’t believe that you flirted with that guy, and if he can’t believe you than maybe he isn’t the guy for you. With out trust, you have nothing. If on the other hand, you think there is a chance you might have been flirting (even if it wasn’t intentionally), then all you can do is apologize and let him know that you didn’t do it intentionally. If he can’t accept that and give you another chance than once again … maybe he just isn’t the guy for you.
jcster Posted August 6, 2007 Posted August 6, 2007 What's with this 3 day stuff? Are you in time out? The burden of proof shouldn't be on you. It sounds like he has some serious trust issues. It's not up to you to rebuild his trust - you didn't do anything!
Cobra_X30 Posted August 6, 2007 Posted August 6, 2007 What on earth did you do? There should not be some huge discrepancy between stories. I have been in a situation like this. It may be that the guy thinks you were flirting with him, and you dont think you were. Unless the guy is mental, if he thinks your flirting... you probably are. That said why would this guy tell you boyfriend anyway?
BlueEyedSarah Posted August 6, 2007 Posted August 6, 2007 Hi! My Boyfriend and I are in a HUGE fight about me flirting with another guy. I told him I didnt mean to and i was sorry, i really didnt flirt with the other guy, the guy said i did and my boyfriend believes him. He said he needs 3 days without talking to me. How can i regain his trust, build it back, and start all over? Can anyone help me, it would be very helpful! God Bless! If you did nothing and he does not trust you before this event then he obviously never trusted you before. Sounds to me like someone is wanting to cause problems in your relationship for whatever reason...
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