Krytellan Posted August 7, 2007 Posted August 7, 2007 Can any one tell me the best way to handle this with out devastating him? As a man who handles things so much better when I know I was at fault, I would love for you to just come out and tell him that you don't think it'll work because you see him as unable to handle who you are. Don't give any "it's not you it's me" crap. Tell him that it is because he can't do it. At least when it's over he won't be left with a feeling of helplessness at being told it had nothing to do with him. For some of us it's nice to know that it was actually about us. There's more meaning there.
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