Darth Vader Posted August 8, 2007 Posted August 8, 2007 Well it sure as hell won't be one like Tomcat. Any man would be asking for trouble dating that one. The fur is really starting to fly huh, Bish?
Tomcat33 Posted August 9, 2007 Posted August 9, 2007 Uh...thats why I turned her down......or did you miss that? Thanks, I just might. Damn, I must have really gotten your goat...seeing as how you are a cheater yourself. Uh, no....I told her no and I wasn't going to mess around with a married woman. Besides...there wasn't really any "offer"...just her being very flirtatious which I did tell her was not appropriate. Nope, I had the conversation with her that she is not acting appropriately. Sorry cheater TC...you missed your mark. Whatever you say cheater. :laugh: :laugh:What a joke! Every single time you direct a comment at me it is to accuse me of being a cheater!?!? WTF? funny thing is I have never cheated on anyone in my ENTIRE life not sure where you get your facts from but if all your posts are as factual as this one then I suppose I was right in not feeling much pitty for the fact you were cheated on throughout your entire marriage. Anyway even if I was involved with a guy like you wich I would not go near with a 10 foot pole because you are what I call "too much baggage man". YIKES! I would never cheat on a person I love. I understand love and I respect it. And speaking of love.... I love life's ironic moments, and this thread was life's BIGGEST irony of all. I give it a month and you'll be over on the OM/OW side posting your story....so predictable! Just wanted to be the first to point out how ironic it is that all this time you have been consistently BASHING all the OW in the other forum, calling them names and just putting every single woman down who either has contemplated or is/was involved w a married person and you are now faced with the same kind of woman you so LOVE to hate. Life is precious!!! Instead of sitting there admiring her hot body (suddenly don't mind the attention do you??), why don't you call her for what she is, because according to you I can rhyme off quite a few things you have called all the OW in the OW/OM forum...she is no different than tha women you put down and DON'T EVEN KNOW! What hypocricy!
Tomcat33 Posted August 9, 2007 Posted August 9, 2007 Thanks, I just might. NO YOU WON'T! and you know why? because you are only HUMAN like all the other people you LOVE to put down. Despite how high you think you sit on your moral high horse you are closer to the ground than a lot of people you think are the scum of the earth. The problem is you have managed to trick your brain into thinking that you are so high up that now you are actually suffering from lack of oxygen from the high altitude! Well that's what I choose to attribute all your hateful posts to, otherwise I can't beleive someone with such hypocricy can expect to be taken seriously AT ALL. I'm done.
lostboy60645 Posted August 9, 2007 Posted August 9, 2007 It's something I'm learning about every day in my recovery, Bish. I know you, like most people, are repulsed by cheaters. My cheating was with prostitutes, online webcamming with strangers, and by masturbating incessantly to internet porn. It's a great reminder for me that the married gals who flirt with me who know that I'm getting a divorce are ones to steer clear from for sure. You hit the nail on the head, regarding the notion of the shoe on the other foot. If you saw this woman down the line and she were fully divorced, and you started a new relationship, it seems perfectly realistic that she could cheat on you. Thanks for your thoughtful input. I'm aware there's a lot of emotion there. We all have that. It's the cheaters, I find, that choose to ignore/suppress those emotions with their 'acting out' in hurtful ways to themselves and others. Best to you and the kids, Lostboy60645 http://www.livingsobriety.blogspot.com Yeah, I was just saying how *SNIFF SNIFF* how lovely everyone is around here. For those who've read or participated in the above, I maintain that this is a great place to learn about human behavior... It's just a little surprising to me how my therapist WAS right about something--that having a real discourse, face-to-face is much more real. It's too easy to rant and rave without seeing others' faces. Without hearing the story with their voices trembling, with the tears in their eyes. People are in pain here. Whenever I see anger/rage come out, I am reminded of myself, the ugliest part of myself that I revealed to both ex-wives, in addition to several other people during my life, I'm sure. And I remember that behind the anger, underneath the rage, was someone who was very hurt, very unhappy, and who didn't know how to express himself. I wish all of y'all well. I know that I'm coming here to learn more about myself, and even these hurtful banters are good teachers for me. Lostboy60645 http://www.livingsobriety.blogspot.com
Author bish Posted August 9, 2007 Author Posted August 9, 2007 :laugh: :laugh:What a joke! Every single time you direct a comment at me it is to accuse me of being a cheater!?!? WTF? funny thing is I have never cheated on anyone in my ENTIRE life Oh excuse me....homewrecker...sorry about that. And speaking of love.... I love life's ironic moments, and this thread was life's BIGGEST irony of all. I give it a month and you'll be over on the OM/OW side posting your story....so predictable! Uh...not. Sorry, I am not like you and the other OW/OM. Aint one...never been one, never will be. Some of us have a sense of decency. Sorry that you don't. Just wanted to be the first to point out how ironic it is that all this time you have been consistently BASHING all the OW in the other forum, calling them names and just putting every single woman down who either has contemplated or is/was involved w a married person and you are now faced with the same kind of woman you so LOVE to hate. You didn't point out crap. You missed your mark terribly. I told this woman she was acting inappropriately and told her I would not entertain the idea of being with a married woman. Actually all you did was reinforce me....thanks sugarbritches. Instead of sitting there admiring her hot body (suddenly don't mind the attention do you??) Liking attention is one thing...acting on it, like people like you do, is quite another. Sorry..I'm not like you....never will be. I refuse to be that despicable. , why don't you call her for what she is I did...and I told her what i thought of people that cheat on their spouses. because according to you I can rhyme off quite a few things you have called all the OW in the OW/OM forum...she is no different than tha women you put down and DON'T EVEN KNOW! No..she is no different than them...thats why I told her what I did and refused to give in to any advances. Sorry honey, again...you missed your mark. What hypocricy! Why don't you learn what it is before you use it in a sentence.
Author bish Posted August 9, 2007 Author Posted August 9, 2007 NO YOU WON'T! and you know why? because you are only HUMAN like all the other people you LOVE to put down. Despite how high you think you sit on your moral high horse you are closer to the ground than a lot of people you think are the scum of the earth. The problem is you have managed to trick your brain into thinking that you are so high up that now you are actually suffering from lack of oxygen from the high altitude! Well that's what I choose to attribute all your hateful posts to, otherwise I can't beleive someone with such hypocricy can expect to be taken seriously AT ALL. I'm done. How long did it take you to think up that meaningless blather? ya your done alright....who should take the words of someone who will sleep with someone elses husband seriously?
Author bish Posted August 9, 2007 Author Posted August 9, 2007 Yeah, I was just saying how *SNIFF SNIFF* how lovely everyone is around here. For those who've read or participated in the above, I maintain that this is a great place to learn about human behavior... It's just a little surprising to me how my therapist WAS right about something--that having a real discourse, face-to-face is much more real. You are correct...face to face it is much more real....however, I still stuck to my principles and told this woman that I wasn't interested because it was not appropriate, and I won't date women that would cheat on their husbands. So its much more real, but I in no way am changing my principles whether it is in this forum, or in front of a woman I know wants to screw around on her husband.
jj2007 Posted August 9, 2007 Posted August 9, 2007 Bish you did the right thing and it gives me hope that there are still some people with morals and standards in this world! I am in agreement that I have not and will NEVER be a cheater and when OW/OM say,"oh it just happens" pffffft! that's like saying "oh yeah I accidently let some guy dip his wick in me!" I have said this before and I will say it again, it's called SELF CONTROL. And you my man just proved my theory! Great job!
Author bish Posted August 9, 2007 Author Posted August 9, 2007 Bish you did the right thing and it gives me hope that there are still some people with morals and standards in this world! Well there are...so don't listen to the likes of people like Lizzie60 or Tomcat. Some of us out here do have some decency. I am in agreement that I have not and will NEVER be a cheater and when OW/OM say,"oh it just happens" pffffft! that's like saying "oh yeah I accidently let some guy dip his wick in me!" I have said this before and I will say it again, it's called SELF CONTROL. And you my man just proved my theory! Great job! LOL..yup...its like the clip from the movie The Last Boy Scout where Bruce Willis said: http://new.wavlist.com/movies/137/lbs-accident.wav "It was an accident right? You tripped, slipped on the floor and accidentally stuck your dick into my wife."
whichwayisup Posted August 9, 2007 Posted August 9, 2007 The other line in that movie "I was lonely..." BW replies to his wife, "Then buy a dog."
Darth Vader Posted August 9, 2007 Posted August 9, 2007 Bish, you need some catnip, maybe a ball of yarn to lure away a certain cat? Oh, you got some fur on ya!
Author bish Posted August 10, 2007 Author Posted August 10, 2007 The other line in that movie "I was lonely..." BW replies to his wife, "Then buy a dog." I know...haven't seen that movie in a while. I may have to rent it this weekend.
Author bish Posted August 10, 2007 Author Posted August 10, 2007 Bish, you need some catnip, maybe a ball of yarn to lure away a certain cat? Oh, you got some fur on ya! I'm allergic to cats...can't you tell?
Author bish Posted August 10, 2007 Author Posted August 10, 2007 Bish, you need some catnip, maybe a ball of yarn to lure away a certain cat? Oh, you got some fur on ya! Oh, and in your signature, you can take out "apparent" I think he just says, "I find your lack of faith disturbing".
Tomcat33 Posted August 10, 2007 Posted August 10, 2007 I'm allergic to cats...can't you tell? Meow!!!
herenow Posted August 10, 2007 Posted August 10, 2007 Hey Bish, I've read your story on the OW/OM forum. I'm not surprised that you wouldn't cross the line and have a relationship with a MW. Of course you are human and there is nothing wrong with admiring an attractive person, but you were able to stick to you morals and draw the line. Thank you for the proof that not every man cheats when given the opportunity.
Darth Vader Posted August 10, 2007 Posted August 10, 2007 I'm allergic to cats...can't you tell? I can tell! I noticed the reaction! Oh, I'm not sure, I think it's in there, I haven't watched the movie in ages, too much saber fighting lately!
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