everchanging7822 Posted August 5, 2007 Posted August 5, 2007 Hey everybody, I met a nice guy 3 days before I have to leave the place where i am currently. We are both foreigners in the country and he is leaving in a month and a half to go back and wok in his country. I conntacted him first via e mail and then by phone for research that I am doing. When the work talked finished he expressed interest in me asking me what I will ne doing today in teh evening and staff and invited me to his workplace the next day. But since it is too far away I told him that if he wants to meet me it will be better in town . So we met and was really nice we talked and had beer and I danced a little and I really had a good time and he seemed to have a good time he laughed and said jokes and was really very close to me and his body language showed he likes me. When we went out for a cab he nearly kissed me but when we parted we just kissed on the cheeks and hugged each other. Since he was asking what I will be doing during the weekend and he works on saturdays I told him that I will be leaving on Sunday late afternoon. And he was like so you will be in town the whole sunday. Silly me I did not say like lets meet up and staff before I leave. Instead the next day i send him an e mail to have a good by meeting for a coffee and thanked him for the great night. My plans changed and I will leave on Monday late evening but I still have not heard from the guy.No phone call no e mail just nothing. What do you think about that? I am positive he saw the e mail because he works on Saturdays? I will apprecaite your comments. I like the guy so I am interested as to why he disappeared like that. He also has to send me some research related material so I wonder why he is distancing like that?
Lyssa Posted August 5, 2007 Posted August 5, 2007 Could be he didn't check his email? Maybe he didn't even go to work that Sat? Why didn't you text him?
Author everchanging7822 Posted August 5, 2007 Author Posted August 5, 2007 Hey Lyssa, I just send him a text message. if he doesnot reply then i will know he just did not like me as I thought he did. Things lilke that happen:).Sometimes we misread people . Anyway i hope he sends me the research materials since I will need them for my work! If anybody has ideas as to why he did not respond I will be glad to hear them!
Lyssa Posted August 5, 2007 Posted August 5, 2007 Things lilke that happen:).Sometimes we misread people . Anyway i hope he sends me the research materials since I will need them for my work! I agree. Or we tend to read too much into something. Well, he should be the one to contact you now! He has your research materials!!
Author everchanging7822 Posted August 5, 2007 Author Posted August 5, 2007 He has a demanding job and when we parted his boss called him in the middle of the night and I am sure it was his boss. There was a problem or something and he might be busy still solving that problem. So who knows:). I really liked the guy!And I rarely like a guy like that. I donot think I read too much into him , because I am not that type of girl!Usually I donot even notice when a guy makes advances. But this time was kind of obvious so that even I got it. I just hope he sends me the research materials. We cannot have a relationship or anything because we will be in different countries with different career goals etc. Would have been nice to see him again. Oh well life is like that! If somebody can think of something please, let me know!
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