ellastar Posted August 28, 2007 Posted August 28, 2007 I felt it. My recent(ex) and I rode this wave for 18 months, then out of the blue he said he needed space. 2 weeks later he was back (we had work week relationship, so we saw each other 3-4 night a week). 4 months later I moved towns, new job in tow, we had just gotten back from a 3 week Thailand holiday & similar to a marriage proposal, he asked me to move in with him. and everyone, especially his family, were certain, i was the "one". and i felt it too. he was the one. sometimes so scared of that love, it frightened me. then things started to change. he became dissastisfied with his life. his dream of moving to the u.s. dispapeared after we visited in may. he had fantasized about it for 10 years and realized when he came back, he did not want to anymore. 8 weeks ago he broke up with me citing he stopped having feelings for me. we still live together. i move out on saturday. i feel just as much pain as the day he said his feelings for me have changed. this was a wonderful, star-struck passionate love. you could cut it with a knife. and just like that it is over. i started dating when i was, what, 17? it took me over 15 years to find it. would i want it again? not if knew it would one day be over. i have never felt such pain before. i alway knew our love had to move into the next phase. when it did, i was still content. i wanted a family and he led me to believe he did too. i don't know what he felt or what happened. he just stopped loving me
VIP Posted August 28, 2007 Posted August 28, 2007 When a woman loves too much, she looses her appeal, she is not a challenge anymore. A man must always make an effort to please a woman, only then he appreciates her.
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