invizibletearz Posted August 3, 2007 Posted August 3, 2007 I now have this new boyfriend that I am really really into. He is 23 and I am 25. We see eachother almost everyday, but if we can't due to our jobs, he calls me no matter what. He is so sweet and treats me very well. He always tells me I'm so beautiful, loves cuddling, touching, holds doors open for me, including car doors. He pretty much is that one guy I've been waiting for forever. My mind is CONSTANTLY on him and he always tells me that too, also saying how much he misses me and always wants to see me. Anyways, every single guy I've dated or had as a steady boyfriend in the past has caused me pain and never lasted. I've cried over every relationship. They'd start out as the perfect guy, then later their true colors come out and they treat me bad, neglecting me, and then it would eventually end with me crying and heartbroken while they don't care whatsoever what they have done to me. I am they type of woman that does anything to make them happy. I do things for my man not because I have to, because I want to. I'm happy if they're happy. I just ask for the same kindness and respect in return. 50/50. I'm such a nice person, it's hard for me to say no and to turn away after I've developed strong feelings for the guy. So now, where it comes back to my current boyfriend, how do I know all of these good and sweet actions he does for me are for real? It's difficult for me to believe and trust now because of my past. I don't want to put too much of a guard up to him because what if he really is the right one? I just don't want to end up heartbroken again because of, what should I call it-- gullibleness should I say? I believe so far he is truthful and real, but I have believed in the past more than once and always got hurt. So what should I do? How can I tell if my boyfriend, who I'm so into, is for real with me and really wants me and could be the right one? Please help!!!
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