Ladies I need your advice BAD!!!, i have a date this weekend and don't want to go

[DateAnalyzer]

I would send flowers if you expect to continue to date her.. you need to make a huge effort to overcome this huge error.

 

If you send flowers and be good on your word the next time you make a date then all will hopefully be forgiven..

Then don't bring it up again...

 

But if a women did something like that a guy wpuld supposed to look at it as-"SH*T HAPPENS SOMETIMES" instead of a error on her part. But when A guy does it he is just WRONG!!!

[Art_Critic]

If a woman did the same thing to me that you just did to her ( stood a date up ) then I would never speak to her after telling her to buzz off..

 

But this girl is different.. She is still talking to you.. right ? then she is giving you the opportunity to make it up to her..

Unless you really are not interested in her anymore.. if that is the case then just don't call her anymore.

 

What would you have done if she stood you up instead this weekend ?

[DateAnalyzer]

If a woman did the same thing to me that you just did to her ( stood a date up ) then I would never speak to her after telling her to buzz off..

 

But this girl is different.. She is still talking to you.. right ? then she is giving you the opportunity to make it up to her..

 

What would you have done if she stood you up instead this weekend ?

 

 

 

I would have been pissed too so I understand, but i would have probably been criticized by her for being pissed

[Trimmer]

But if a women did something like that a guy wpuld supposed to look at it as-"SH*T HAPPENS SOMETIMES" instead of a error on her part. But when A guy does it he is just WRONG!!!

I disagree. If either one had blown off a planned date, call, whatever, I think the other would be justifiably upset. Neither one should get any more blame or be any more excused, just based on gender.

 

I would have been pissed too so I understand, but i would have probably been criticized by her for being pissed

You tend towards assuming the worst. You are the one who fell asleep, yet here you have found a way to have negative thoughts about her with relation to the situation. Try giving people the benefit of the doubt at least until you have some concrete reason to believe they deserve otherwise.

 

If you do decide to try to make it up to her, your attitude will be a big part of the package. Good luck.