Whatisup Posted August 2, 2007 Posted August 2, 2007 Hello everyone. I know most people have had a problem like this at some point in their life, this is my first. I am about 16, which makes this all the more harder, and have been dating a girl for well over a year. I have progressively been falling out of love with her for about 2 months and without being cocky, i know she still loves me. The problem is, I want out, but i still want to be friends. I have known her since I can remember and we have always been very close. I would do anything to avoid hurting her and this is preventing me from ever being able to break it off. I've tried making acting differently, but then i notice how much it is hurting her and how much it upsets her and end up back to normal. I stopped doing the things i used to do for her, like telling her she looked amazing and all of that for like 1 day and i felt horrible. I have absolutely no clue what to do. I've tried just doing it, and i get tongue tied or she interupts me. I tried convincing myself i still love her, but then I just think about it and I want out. I'm not happy in this relationship. Please, can anybody help me?
Author Whatisup Posted August 2, 2007 Author Posted August 2, 2007 Oh, and I forgot to mention, she is going through a tough time too, her grandma is really sick and her parents are married but her dad is constantly travelling for long periods of time
sheko kilmister Posted August 3, 2007 Posted August 3, 2007 i think that lovers can never be friends .. even if they say so .. if they try to be friends they'll be the worst and silliest friends ever .. i mean .. only the sight of you will hurt her .. you've been dating for a year .. if you're gonna leave her .. just leave her .. don't plan to be her friend .. cuz you'll be bad friends .. and that's somthing you don't want .. once when i tried to be a friend with my ex .. it was horrible
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