nc?

[Tom725]

my girl broke it off about 3 weeks ago...i did the nc for about 3 days and she was back saying she missed me and wanted to take it slow...well, I tried to dive back in head first, like most of us do and things went south. Now she is backing off again....It sux because I feel like I blew it. Would nc again make sense or am i just being a fool and should maybe try and move on?

[frd150]

my girl broke it off about 3 weeks ago...i did the nc for about 3 days and she was back saying she missed me and wanted to take it slow...well, I tried to dive back in head first, like most of us do and things went south. Now she is backing off again....It sux because I feel like I blew it. Would nc again make sense or am i just being a fool and should maybe try and move on?

 

 

It depends. Can you elaborate some more?

 

 

Get ready for the rollercoaster ride if you stick with it.

[Tom725]

i guess she didnt wanna be away from me but something spooked her from wanting to be in the relationship...when she started contact she didnt want me to be out of her life, but was not reluctant to jump back on the relationship thing......it drove me nuts for a few weeks and I got a bit needy.which obviously wasnt good for me

[frd150]

i guess she didnt wanna be away from me but something spooked her from wanting to be in the relationship...when she started contact she didnt want me to be out of her life, but was not reluctant to jump back on the relationship thing......it drove me nuts for a few weeks and I got a bit needy.which obviously wasnt good for me

 

 

Tom,

 

I assume that she is young. If i am wrong then I apologize. how long were you all together?

 

 

My relatinship Ended the same way. Now i wonder if my ex is just having her cake and eating it to.

[Tom725]

yea maybe so....I guess Im being naive if someone breaks it off but wants to keep in contact....usually means they dont want the relationship but cant deal with the seperation.....that might be a huge rollercoaster to deal with