sao2 Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 OK everybody, think about your ex, just for a second. Now remember they are out of your life and ask ourselves what is preventing us from moving on. 1) Is it the thought that we will never find anyone that likes us like they liked us? That's ridiculous, if our exes liked us like that they wouldn't be ex's would they. 2) Is it the thought that we will never like anyone like we liked our ex's? Again ridiculous. As great as our ex might be as a person the fact of the matter is that if we let ourselves we can easily find someone we are attracted to just as much if not more than our ex's. Maybe our ex was such a great person, can we seriously say that there is no one else out there that compares with them. That is such a ridiculous thought, there are Billions of individuals in the world and the idea that we found the one person better for us than all of them is RIDICULOUS. Don't discount all the other people in the world. 3) Is it the pain of imagining them happy with someone else? Yeap, Ridiculous, if we truly love them then we want them to be happy, even if that means without us. Love is an action, they may have felt strongly for you but if they were not willing to work through the hard times with you then THEY DID NOT LOVE YOU. If they quit when the going got tough. If they quit when their feelings changed. If they just needed space and time. IN any of these cases they just didn't love you. Find someone who will love you. I'm done being a pathetic sad excuse for a man, today starts a new stage of my life. I am not dumping her, I have already been dumped, she needed space, well she has it. I am now dumping the hope and the pain. I have washed my hands of her!!!!!!!! Her free pass with me is gone, if she wants me back she will have to make me fall in love with her again. Let's get over it everybody. peace out
h2ofrek Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 Sao, Thanx a mil. I read your ridiculous thoughts and I am printing them out to put over my head in my rack so I read them before I fall asleep and when I wake up every day. Definately a help in the "re-wiring" of my brain and the thoughts that have led me to where I am right now. Keep rocking. H2ofrek
Grace112 Posted August 13, 2007 Posted August 13, 2007 I know in my head what you say is true. I just need the reminder for my heart. Thanks.
Author sao2 Posted August 14, 2007 Author Posted August 14, 2007 Yeah I suck, broke contact today. I don't regret though. But I will give that free pass. It's been rough times. I feel like such a fraud
discoverychannel Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 so right. love is an action. I can't believe after breaking up he told his friend that he loved me so much he was going to marry me. Then why did he break up with me??? Obviously he did not truly love me... jerk. LIIESSS!!! ALL LIES!! haahaha
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