Hazy Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 my second cousin is hot! Luckily this is OK to consider because I was adopted as a baby. So...he saw me sitting and came over, moved my purse from the chair next to me so he could sit by me, and we talked for half an hour. It was great. However, I thought he was married but I found out after the reunion from my Grandma that he has been in the process of a divorce for a year! (I just thought she couldn't attend the reunion or something.) His soon to be exwife wants to suck a lot out of him and he won't sign the papers yet until it's a reasonable settlement (no kids, thank goodness, that is why he is divorcing her, they married with the mutual desire to have kids, then she renegged on him and was really nasty about it. He deserves better.) Oh, and by the way he's not only handsome and intelligent....he's RICH. (not that it matters.) AND he's SUPER nice. Is it bad that I fantasized about my cousin last night? Don't worry...NOT blood-related. WISH ME LUCK ON THIS ONE.
cr8sea Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 talk about risky business!!! I dont know about getting involve with family members. It doesnt matter that you're not related, you're still family and if things go bad....man i dont even want to know. Its like dating a friend who's also a coworker and lives next to you and then take it to the tenth power...BADDDD IDEA! Can never escape from seeing them...and thats soooo annoying...not to mention painful and affects more than just you two Yes i know im killing it before it even starts, but you gotta think about this before you make any moves. Good luck!
Author Hazy Posted July 31, 2007 Author Posted July 31, 2007 He is such a great man, I am willing to risk it. I only see him once a year at family reunions anyway. I could handle it. He just might be the love of my life. I did find his email on the internet with his business. I'm going to wait a few weeks and then email him.
whichwayisup Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 You may be into him, but he may not be into you that way...Unless he's implied that he 'likes' you too? Either way, don't get involved with him until the divorce is over and he's had time alone to sort through stuff and heal. He won't be ready to BE in any relationship, especially since you say his divorce could get messy.
Recommended Posts