cr8sea Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 I swear this confusion is getting to me!!! So quick recap. Seeing a guy, who i really have a good time with. Been with him for two months, and made the um....mistake, of asking him if we were exclusive (and yes, i realize it is a mistake...WAY too soon for that talk) So he was defensive about it, saying it was too soon (at the point of that conversation, i was sure I was on the right....) that he liked his independence. blah blah blah.... In my confusion.....i talked to this lady i saw a while back....a psychic....(please dont kill me!!) She told me he had someone else besides me and really had no intentions of getting into a relationship any time soon. Well, i took that with a grain of salt, the whole he had someone else. He's a very busy guy, and i just honestly dont see him doing that, plus he assures me he is exclusively seeing me right now (even before the whole no sex unless we're exclusive talk we had) Anyway so then.....i talked to another lady...psychic...just because...and she said the same thing...almost to the T. That he had somehow mislead me, that there was another woman he was seeing and he had kept me in the dark about it. He had hoped i wouldnt find out and things would have kept going the way they were but since i put a break on it, he was going to backpaddle. This reminded me of how he said that usually, that conversation send things downhill in his past experiences. Now...im even more confused. The lady said that this relationship isnt quite over yet....but that i needed to respect his decision of not being exclusive and if i cant handle it, to get out. Should i trust what these women are telling me? Ive talked to them before, and they have been right, almost scary status. But then, they have also missed in certain other things.... Until last nite, i was going to let things happen, go with the flow...but now im not sure if i should just break it off and run for the hills from what these women tell me. Do you guys think is stupid of me to think about breaking up with someone based on a psychic reading???? I have sooooo hit a new low i swear!!!
high_boost Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 those people are fake. do not listen to them and dont tell your boyfriend your taking advise from a loony lol. just chill out and let things take their course.
Arizona100 Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 Well, if I have sex with someone, it means it's exclusive. Unless we talked about it BEFORE and agreed it wouldn't be exclusive (but forget that one, usually it means the guy wants to have sex with the girl while looking for someone better, not saying it's all the time like that but yeah ..) I hope you guys use condoms Personally, but it's just me.. I'd date someone else because I wouldn't want the person to make me wait and then dump me for another woman. To take it slow is ok in my book, but I don't buy the "I am not ready for a relationship", when it's the good one, it's the good one, there is no "I am not ready". It's just a way to get out of it the easy way. About mam fortune.. I don't believe in it, not sure what to tell you.
SadandConfusedWA Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 In my experience every psychic reading I have ever had was completly fake. They pretty much just guess based on common sense and what you told them or they tell you what you want to hear. It's not even worth thinking about.
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