sweetiepookiepie Posted July 30, 2007 Posted July 30, 2007 Let's set the stage.... My biggest problem with the whole breakup was that I told him before we made our relationship official to be certain that he wanted to be in a relationship. I've always suspected that he had commitment issues that is why I had my concerns with being in a relationship with him. His longest relationship was somewhere in the neighborhood of eight or nine months. So the story goes a little something like this... my bf and I had been together a couple of months. We had our first official disagreement in views the other day. A couple days later he calls to say that he thinks he isn't ready for a relationship and thinks we should just remain friends. I agreed reluctantly. He asked me not to tell anyone about the breakup and said he'd do the same. He said let's give it a little bit of time and see where we end up. In the meantime he wants to be friends with benefits. It's really hard to go backwards like that. I really truly wanted to be with him long term so to be slapped in the face with the "friends" bit isn't really working and I don't know how to cope with that. What do I do????
Reactor Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 Get rid of him, friends with 'benefits' isn't benefiting anyone but him. Do it for yourself, else he will always walk all over you! You are better than that, somewhere out there is someone who will love you for you and won't run away from a simple disagreement!
Goodin Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 Based on the information you gave it sounds like he isn't all that into you and now he is just stringing you along for sex until he finds something else. You should give him an ultimatum...or maybe even better just give him the boot.
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