Desperation Posted July 30, 2007 Posted July 30, 2007 First off, I want to say that I know what love really is, and it doesn't take years to accomplish. In fact, what I'm speaking of took only about a month. My girlfriend of four months wants to date other people for a while to see if she truly loves me like I do her. She said that she still loves me, but doubts it sometimes. That doesn't make any sense. Either she loves me or she doesn't. What's worse is I'll have to watch her date other people since we go to the same school. Wen I told her how horrible that was, she said she would just date someone who doesn't go there and not tell me anything. Not knowing anything about the guy would be worse than anything though! Does she just want to break up with me, and this is her way of doing it, or does she really ever want to get back together?
uniqueone Posted July 30, 2007 Posted July 30, 2007 First off, I want to say that I know what love really is, and it doesn't take years to accomplish. In fact, what I'm speaking of took only about a month. My girlfriend of four months wants to date other people for a while to see if she truly loves me like I do her. She said that she still loves me, but doubts it sometimes. That doesn't make any sense. Either she loves me or she doesn't. What's worse is I'll have to watch her date other people since we go to the same school. Wen I told her how horrible that was, she said she would just date someone who doesn't go there and not tell me anything. Not knowing anything about the guy would be worse than anything though! Does she just want to break up with me, and this is her way of doing it, or does she really ever want to get back together? I know that I wouldn't want to hear this but I have to tell you my honest opinion. Yes, I think it's a breakup. I once used to think it meant otherwise but now whenever a person says something like that, I take it as a breakup because that's what I've found it to be. She's keeping you as a backup should things not work out for her "out there". You're her safety net. What you need to do (and I'm not good at this myself) is to back off entirely. Don 't be so safe to her and it'll make you more attractive to her. Like I said, I'm not good at doing this (when it gets to this point)--but it's a good thing to do.
Author Desperation Posted July 31, 2007 Author Posted July 31, 2007 She says that she wants to be sure of her feelings and then come back to me. I can't just forget all about this though. She can't just break my heart and expect me to forget about it. She said that if I really love her like I say I do I'll let her do this without protest. She's just manipulating me it feels like... using my love for her to her advantage. She ignores me when I text her and she's just shaking this off her back like it's nothing... I haven't eaten in more than three days.. I just can't take her not caring anymore...
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