daterhater Posted July 30, 2007 Posted July 30, 2007 friday i went out with two guys who are my boyfriend's friends. my boyfriend had to leave early for something. i stayed around with the guys. one of the guys i have liked for a while now. we've seen eachother enough that I'd consider him a friend of mine. i have come to really care about him. so as the night goes on, i get more drunk and am worse at hiding my feelings. i am not a touchy feely, flirty person and have not made any passes at him obviously, but i feel i've already crossed the line because of how badly i want to be around him and how happy he makes me. he makes smile the entire time i'm around him. he makes me so happy. so at the end of the night, i stupidly brought up my boyfriend and how we're having trouble and i don't know what to do because he's my best friend and i love him for that, but i am really unsure of the relationship. blah blah blah. i had no right talking about my bf with this guy. he told me to just keep being the great person i am. that's ALL he said. later i noticed he was crying. i neeled down next to him on the couch and hugged him then i fell asleep on the floor near him. now what? do you think he can tell i like him? it's hard for me to tone down how happy i am with him. if he had noticed i have a crush on him, he wouldn't hang out with me still would he? you'd think it would be too awkward.
cr8sea Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 I dont think he knows u have a crush on him...guys arent really all that perceptive...but the problem is not that...the problem is that u have a crush on ur guy's friend....ohhhhh girl. First of, does ur bf make u as happy as this guy? if not reeval ur relationship.... even then though....if u break with ur guy...chances are ur not gonna be able to go out with this one cuz that would be maaaajor drama u REALLY dont want to get into. eshh messy situation.... GOOOD LUCK!!!
Lauriebell82 Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 Why not try telling your bf what you told his friend? Honestly, you need to dump your boyfriend cause you "just aren't that into him" anymore. Going out with the friend wouldn't be the best idea, and seriously if the dude even likes you chances are he'd probably reject you if you dumped your bf for him, because he is being loyal to his friend. I doubt he wants to lose him friend over a girl. You are headed for a messy situation either way, your best bet is to break up with your boyfriend and move on.
jcster Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 You're playing with fire! If you don't want to break up with your current boyfriend, you should stay away from this other guy. Been there, got the merit badge - never again.
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