i left him, but i love him!!!!!!!!!!1

[Omma]

Hi, im new to this and hopefully i will recieve some advice.and i would apreciate any.

I had a boyfriend 3 years ago, which now has appeared once again, weve been dating since 7 months, and lately (1 month) he has been acting weird, lots of humor changes and i could see that he was confused about us, and i was not enjoying anymore, i mean, i loved him, he loves me, but thats it, its been 7 months, i know him since agees, and i never knew what we were in, sometimes he said i didnt have the right to ask him for explanations, but at the same time, he could, sometimes he would call and be all loveley and the next day, cold as an ice, so i mean, i was really getting stressed, so i told him that " you seem confused about us, so i think the best thing we can so,is split and do some thinking, if you love me you will let go, because this is not fun anymore", so he said " i love you so i will leave you free, because its not fair to ve with you while im feeling confuesd".

so 2 days past, and he was calling, " i miss you, i love you", and thats it, he knows i want to be with him, and when he calls i expect he will call to say hes made upo his mind, not that he loves me and misses me?

i hope you understand what im trying to explain here, it seems like he calls to check on me, but at the same time he seems happy the way he is.

Last time he called , i told him not to call anymore, because what forrr?? if he wants nothing......

i realllllllllllllllllllly miss him, and sometimes doubt what i have done, please telll me what am i supposed to do, keep on with my life and maybe he will notice he loves me and wants to be with me?, or go look for him even though he is still confused?

[Yamaha]

Because you love someone doesn't mean you can have a relationship with them. If he is confused you need to let him be and sort things out. It might never happen and you need to accept that but it doesn't mean you need to stop all contact with each other.