norajane Posted August 11, 2007 Posted August 11, 2007 I'm not going to call her a slut, trollop, cheap, whatever. Yes, her behavior is cheap, but so is his for encouraging her in the dirty talk and for even considering using her to satisfy his blue balls and cheating on his wife in the process. But I think they BOTH have the same problem - they are in need of attention. Him because of his wife's situation, and her for reasons unknown (although it sounds like she doesn't have a loving man in her life, and sex is the only way she can have a man at all and feel wanted, so she uses that to get one if only for a quickie in the bathroom...low self esteem, perhaps). I'm glad to see he told her to back off, but it also requires HIM to back off for this whole thing to go away. She's not forcing him to talk dirty to her, nor is she forcing him to consider cheating on his wife; he's doing that of his own volition. In any case, I would hope that he'd start talking dirty to his wife instead and make HER feel sexy and wanted.
Cad Rake Posted August 22, 2007 Posted August 22, 2007 Jesus, what's with all the christians here. Anyhow, dude, the chick is 160 LBS!!! OF COURSE she comes on strong, she has to. Few guys are into chubbies. Unless she's 160 and 6'5". And then that's a whole different story. That would be weird, yet possibly hot. In any event, yeah life with your wife sucks. Stop hanging around each other all the time... sex brings people together, if you're already together you don't have sex very much. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and all that. Forget the chubb.. when you're fantasizing about chicks like that it means you are SEXUALLY DESPERATE. If you're going to fool around on your wife at least find a hot, thin girl.
lostboy60645 Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 i cheated on my wife with prostitutes and i find the above comment offensive. guess i'm weird that way... lostboy60645 http://www.livingsobriety.blogspot.com
Impudent Oyster Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 Here is a perfect example of why men should never get married before they're 30. But since you have, you better realize that you made a commitment and come-ons from horny, zaftig women should have been forgotten about long ago along with frat parties and binge-drinking. Seriously, this girl sounds like a flake. The upside is that you have no children, are young and probably don't have a lot of shared assets should your wife find out and realize that she's young enough to start over with relative ease.
ohmy3 Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 I find it hard to think you haven't had any sex of some sort w/ her yet, and i also think your tring to use your wifes "issues "as a excuse for your very poor behavior............... don't try to blame the hoe @ work or your wife for your behavior you "YOURSELF" control ! nice guy or not as you are " Selling " --yourself -- as in your 1st post , be an adult, change your job whatever you need to do ............ if you loved her (wife) as you say, i dought you've let it go as far as you have told us. bathroom treats! really sad!
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