Lucky555 Posted July 29, 2007 Posted July 29, 2007 If i were to text message a guy that i am seeing by texting "saying hi :)" um should he respond back? this is not normally something that i do but i didnt feel like talking for a long time since i have other things to do. I would think he would respond with "hi" back but apparently not. He was supposedly going on a camping trip tonight but I KNOW HE HAS HIS PHONE because he always does. I didn't talk to him last night so i figured a short message would be ok tonight. I do have a doubt in the back of my mind saying "hes probably making out with some girl right now because you didn't go" (because i had studies and an exam coming up, med stuff) so anyways i don't know if i am right to think that he should have sent something back or what.
sofakingmad Posted July 29, 2007 Posted July 29, 2007 where did he go camping? maybe the signal is bad there and he never received your txt.
Author Lucky555 Posted July 29, 2007 Author Posted July 29, 2007 I believe he went camping where there is reception...Its going to be a party type of camping trip and i the guys are bringing their girlfriends, yeah i am not there due to my priorities of studies. I just can't believe that he didn't call at all today nor did he send a hi back. "maybe preoccupied?" Were not that serious but he claims to want to talk to me more and stuff, whatever he didn't do anything for me on my b-day this week so i shouldn't expect much from him. I just wanted to know if texting someone i am seeing should text me back if he actually got the message?
sofakingmad Posted July 29, 2007 Posted July 29, 2007 i think the proper etiquette would be if you txt'd him he should have txt'd you back. it only takes a minute or so to do.
AriaIncognito Posted July 29, 2007 Posted July 29, 2007 Well, he's not really "obligated" to say hi back, but it would be nice. Perhaps he is in an area with poor reception or maybe he isn't carrying his phone, or worse yet, lost it out in the wilderness! At any rate, I wouldn't spend too much time worrying about it. It could be, and probably is, nothing.
IfWishesWereHorses Posted July 29, 2007 Posted July 29, 2007 He didn't do anything for your birthday and you are questioning him not replying to a text message??? If I have any idea that it's someone I knows birthday then I make sure that they know I remembered them in a special way. Good luck with exams, concentrate on that degree and leave the loosers to their camping trip honey. You've got the rest of your life to find someone who wouldn't dream of missing an opportunitly to make you feel loved and appreciated.
Author Lucky555 Posted July 29, 2007 Author Posted July 29, 2007 yeah, i know that my studies are more important and even if he didn't say anything back just kind of bothers me that he didn't respond when hes the one saying how i don't text him or call. lol However, this relationship will be over very soon because i am going back to school full time in the fall while he will be wasting his life away at parties and his "little job", he said he was applying for a better job but um "he can't pass the drug test!" thus he won't be getting a better job and he likes his life right now. So obviously i want to be a doctor eventually and this just doesn't "do it" for me. Whew that was my rant thanks everyone for commenting about my text question.
Recommended Posts