Following your heart or your head...which is better?

[burning 4 revenge]

Buy a man doll? Not yet, but I'm seriously contemplating it.

I didn't know there was such a thing. If there is it isn't common

 

I wonder what it says about the sexes that men buy blow up dolls that represent the image of an entire women, while women generally just buy dildos and vibrators

[Trialbyfire]

Buy a man doll? Not yet, but I'm seriously contemplating it.

Well, technically speaking, there isn't much difference between the man doll and the real thing. Neither communicates.

 

As for my question, it was in reference to smoking after sex.

[Nemo]

http://realdoll.com/dolls.asp

[burning 4 revenge]

http://realdoll.com/dolls.asp

some thing about that site is a little too reminiscent of jeffrey dahmer and his living sex zombies

[lindya]

I wonder what it says about the sexes that men buy blow up dolls that represent the image of an entire women, while women generally just buy dildos and vibrators

 

Using a discreetly sized dildo probably feels and looks somewhat less foolish than going at it with a dildo that's attached to a 6 ft man made out of latex. Maybe men's libidos are better equipped to shout down those feelings of ridiculousness?

[LoveLace]

Well the head is the logical one....however there were times that using my heart would have been much better for me...when I try to be too logical I might appear heart-LESS...

[Trialbyfire]

Well the head is the logical one....however there were times that using my heart would have been much better for me...when I try to be too logical I might appear heart-LESS...

So...what is wrong with appearing rational?

[allina]

But doesn't the brain lead the heart? When things are good the brain leads the heart to love and when things are bad does it not make the heart grow less fond?

[Trialbyfire]

The heart drives the feel-good stuff and the brain pulls it back and says, you're nuts.

[allina]

The heart drives the feel-good stuff and the brain pulls it back and says, you're nuts.

 

But I think that the brain makes the heart pull back as well when things go bad, it's just that sometimes the heart is a slow learner.

[LoveLace]

So...what is wrong with appearing rational?

 

Nothing...but I've done the combination of going against my heart, without using my head, and ended up losing something I should have kept...many times...

[Trialbyfire]

it's just that sometimes the heart is a slow learner.

Not just a slow learner, it's physically incapable of learning, forget cognitive abilities or retention in any way. There's no grey matter at all.

 

If you (generic) were to give your heart an IQ test, the score would consistently fall below idiot level.

[Trialbyfire]

Nothing...but I've done the combination of going against my heart, without using my head, and ended up losing something I should have kept...many times...

To lindya this discussion, you were using your libido or gut?

[LoveLace]

To lindya this discussion, you were using your libido or gut?

 

Libido had nothing to do with it; I just judged too quickly and did not consider other possibilities; and moved on to the next thing only to repeat myself; I guess it was my gut.

[allina]

Not just a slow learner, it's physically incapable of learning, forget cognitive abilities or retention in any way. There's no grey matter at all.

 

If you (generic) were to give your heart an IQ test, the score would consistently fall below idiot level.

 

:laugh: I don't know, I think my heart is one of the smart ones, at the very least it'll finally say "okay okay brain, you were right"

[lindya]

To lindya this discussion, you were using your libido or gut?

 

My gut told my libido "he's interested". My libido did a rapid assessment and said "great!" Then my heart started ticking back into life for the first time in ages and ages. A couple of weeks later, he asked me out - and while libido, heart and gut went into a flurry, my brain stepped in and declined the invitation. I really did have to say no. Then by the time circumstances changed and it would have been okay(ish) for me to go out with him, I suppose he'd lost interest/found someone else.

 

Timing just wasn't on my side...or perhaps it was, as I've found out a couple of things that reinforce that my brain gave the right answer. Doesn't make me feel any happier though.

 

Oops - misinterpreted the "to lindya" bit. Oh well. All woe and disclosures together!

[Trialbyfire]

My gut told my libido "he's interested". My libido did a rapid assessment and said "great!" Then my heart started ticking back into life for the first time in ages and ages. A couple of weeks later, he asked me out - and while libido, heart and gut went into a flurry, my brain stepped in and declined the invitation. I really did have to say no. Then by the time circumstances changed and it would have been okay(ish) for me to go out with him, I suppose he'd lost interest/found someone else.

 

Timing just wasn't on my side...or perhaps it was, as I've found out a couple of things that reinforce that my brain gave the right answer. Doesn't make me feel any happier though.

 

Oops - misinterpreted the "to lindya" bit. Oh well. All woe and disclosures together!

Classic deliberate misinterpretation. Love it. Don't play the innocent with me.

[alphamale]

the heart tells the woman to go with the good-looking and pennyless guy whom she loves but her head tells her to go with the more homely and slightly balding but rich guy who drives BMW

[LoveLace]

the heart tells the woman to go with the good-looking and pennyless guy whom she loves but her head tells her to go with the more homely and slightly balding but rich guy who drives BMW

 

ha ha ha..

[Art_Critic]

the heart tells the woman to go with the good-looking and pennyless guy whom she loves but her head tells her to go with the more homely and slightly balding but rich guy who drives BMW

 

Don't you really mean this?:

 

the Fuzzy tells the woman to go with the good-looking and pennyless guy whom she could learn to love but her Mom tells her to go with the more homely and slightly balding but rich guy who drives BMW and not bother faking it on learning to love him

[alphamale]

yea i guess thats another way to put it

[allina]

the heart tells the woman to go with the good-looking and pennyless guy whom she loves but her head tells her to go with the more homely and slightly balding but rich guy who drives BMW

 

News flash, there are guys out there who are good looking, successful AND who make good partners *gasp!* I know what a concept

[LoveLace]

News flash, there are guys out there who are good looking, successful AND who make good partners *gasp!* I know what a concept

 

...If only I knew where they were...the single ones anyway!

[Trialbyfire]

the heart tells the woman to go with the good-looking and pennyless guy whom she loves but her head tells her to go with the more homely and slightly balding but rich guy who drives BMW

Ha...my mom would say, pick the smarter of the two... She's my heart-trust now since I've killed mine, effective yesterday.

[alphamale]

News flash, there are guys out there who are good looking, successful AND who make good partners *gasp!* I know what a concept

they are few and far between and ususally snapped up quickly by women who are similar to them...