perspektiv Posted July 28, 2007 Posted July 28, 2007 I started posting here because I went through hell in my last relationship. I finally got over it to the point where I was interested in having someone in my life again. I started dating my current gf about 2 months ago. We actually dated briefly over 5 yrs ago and have kept in contact. It kinda swept both of us off our feet as we both seemingly found what we were looking for. Shes amazing. Very attractive, awesome body, totally trustworthy and is into everything I am. I could trust this girl indefinitely. I would NEVER question anything she does. My ex was a different story. My problem is this. I have someone right now that would never do me wrong. She puts me before herself and everything is reciprocated. Why now do I think a lot about my ex, someone who destroyed me? My ex had me on a string, and our relationship had a really hard and emotional ending. I don't know why I even think about her when I have something real finally. I dunno, it just bothers me...
NightsInWhiteSatin Posted July 29, 2007 Posted July 29, 2007 When someone has that much of an emotional impact on you it takes time to get over, not just get over her....but get over the emotional damage she did. It's still early into your relationship, go with it....a great relationship booster in the early stages is a weekend away...even if it's not abroad..somewhere quiet and romantic...even if its a caravan near the sea for a few days. Gives you time to both leave everything behind including whats been on your mind and let yourselves loose. Worked for me...might work for you too. Plus she'll love it. Think of it as healing time.
VIP Posted July 29, 2007 Posted July 29, 2007 You haven't gotten over your ex yet. Is there any possibility of your returning to your ex? I think it's better you don't try to get serious with the new girl, you are not ready yet, it can be bad for both of you. Or take it slow, don't make promises, see how it works. You cannot force yourself to love somebody.
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