why doen;t he call

[fran]

i been with this guy off and on for 3 years. until i realize that i was in love with him this past year. we were in the stage that we just hook up (sex) like 5 times a year and thats it. i remember that i couln;t take it any longe so i went to house and i told him that i miss him and i wanted t be with him. He was so happy to see me we kiss and he just hug we hang out the rest of the day and he was telling me that we were goin to be together and all this tuff we hold hands play around and it seem like he really wants to be with me. the same night we went ou to the club with my girs and his friends and was mad at me whe whole night cause i was talking to other guys when he would walk aways its. so when we got back home i ask him and he was likw e goin to be otgether it has to the right and and the right time. and thats all he said. and then we saw eah other another day he has akywas have trouble expressing his feeling. well i saw him and he was look at my face and tell me you goin to get over me, he told me that he thinks about me eveyrday, he doesn't want to be a burden in my life and he is trying to get his life straight. and that same night he calls and leaves a message telling me that he needs to explain himself and and we need to talk and he is trying to make an effort and that he would call me and he has not call m e. its being two moths.w what i don;t get is why u say all that and act like you care but you don;t call or try to come see me. i love him and i told him that all i want is him nobody else. what should i do....HELP...

[yes]

my guess is that he freaked out from the fact that you want him and nobody else

 

-yes

[Bill]

If he cared so much, he would have called. It is quite possible that he was trying to be nice to you, in a sick kind of way. There is possibly someone else in his life at the moment. You may want to check that out.