yergawd Posted July 28, 2007 Posted July 28, 2007 I have not had many LTRs I went from a horrible relationship where trust was an issue to several meaningless, could care less what you're doing when we are not around type "relationships". Now I have a great woman, she has admitted to cheating a few times years ago and regrets it now. As soon as she said this my trust in her practically disappeared. I want to have the attitude of "I trust you 100% and trust you would not cheat, because you'd lose me" like I had with her before but I can't seem to get that back. I know I have trust issues but I am hoping someone could get rid of them.
Author yergawd Posted July 28, 2007 Author Posted July 28, 2007 ....Someone could tell me how to get rid of them. Sorry
jcster Posted July 28, 2007 Posted July 28, 2007 Trust is built over time, but that being said, you have to be open to the possibility that she is trustworthy. You can only do that for yourself. Ask yourself, is it better to be with this person that you care about, or is it better to be safe from all disapointment? It takes a leap of faith whenever we expose your soft inner selves to someone else. You will need to make that leap of faith with her.
amaysngrace Posted July 30, 2007 Posted July 30, 2007 I'm confused...is she the one you had a horrible relationship with before?
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