Hell in paradise

[cindyc71]

Well I made a post previously and I did not receive much response. I would apreciate some feedback though because I am in a very painful situation.

 

My ex is being an a** h*** period. He has done everything from punching a guy friend of mine to making a scene over at the house of the guy I am interested in. I have gotten to the point were I do not want to go out weekends afraid of what will happen next. He even managed to get his way and make me loose a few friends and the guy I am really interested in.

Last night I decided to stay home so I would not run into any drama, and found out that my ex which I left because of cheating was with his latest catch having lots of fun, while I at home miserable and alone.Now normally my friends would say you should have gone out, well wrong.

It does not matter if he is with someone as long as he sees a guy next to me it is a given drama for the night.

Now the guy I like seems interested but want's to rather be friends because of my overly jealous ex.

 

What can I do? I am so damn depressed. Lost my best guy friend and also lost my crush. Is there a way to make things write. My ex has his way he can be with anyone and know I will do nothing (I am not interested in him any more). This is so unfair, I feel so trapped. I have been through so much and my self esteem in falling into pieces by the second. Any support is greatly apreciated any idea too.

 

Thank you!!

[yergawd]

Why would you hang out where you can run into him? Yeah it sucks he's as a**h***. But hey it's a big world/state/city. Also there are anti-stalking laws which you should look at. He's committing assault and intimidation.

[cindyc71]

P.S. I am living abroad in a very small town. There are 3 places to go and I will definetly run into him at one point or another of the night.

[jcster]

The only way that he will stop is if you make him stop. Tell him the next time he tries to assault your date, you will call the police - and that you will press charges.