kitty99b Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Not too long ago I met this guy who was absolutely charming. we went out in a few dates within only a week and it was amazing how much we enjoyed each other's company, and the chemistry was really strong. then he left for only a weekend to visit his parents but much to my surprise he kept in touch with me the whole time from good morning calls to sweet dreams texts. He came back and couldnt wait to see me. I went over his place and we spent the evening listening to his favorite songs and giving each other back massages, but only when I was leaving did he kiss me but it stayed at that. HOwever after this evening he never called again. I called but he never answered. Questions like was it something i said? was it something i did? keeps me up at night. I just dont understand. how can i get closure and move on? should i try calling him now? how bizarre!
Poboy Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 sounds like he expected more while you were at his place & didnt get it. if he is genuinelly interested , he would have contacted you. if he playing the game of who contacts first, he isnt worth it. it will take time to get over him but eventually you will so go on with your life
jcster Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 It sounds like he put in all the "work" that he was willing to do to "get some." When it didn't happen, he went on to the next "job." Don't waste your time worrying about it - it's far better that you found out now.
Hazy Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 I disagree about that he stopped because he did not get sex. Otherwise he would have kissed her before the end of the date. I guess he just decided he wasn't interested or was also dating someone else and decided he'd rather date her. I'm sorry. You may never get an answer.
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