Meaplus3 Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 All those curves, and me with no brakes. HA! That's a good one! Now which one said this Lizzie?, LOL:lmao:
Tomcat33 Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 All those curves, and me with no brakes. :lmao: that's a great one!
IWALH Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 "If you love me, you'll wait for me to get things settled" My ex told his ow that. Right afterwards, he threw her under the bus. Sucked to be her. Hahaha. How are they all SO similar??? I just don't get it!!!!
IWALH Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 This reminded me of a thread I participated in a couple years ago when everything happened the first time around. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t69249/ I was mostly stating lines he wrote me in a letter (that I still have.... maybe I should post THAT so you can see what a TYPICAL MM says, straight from the horse's mouth!), on top of things he told me daily. He told me all the same things this time. Gave me various reasons for why he had to wait until August. He told me he was causing fights at home so his wife would divorce him, kept saying it HAD to be mutual (just like he told me years ago...). Kept telling me the same stuff he told me years ago about the sex we have (ahem, had). Just a bunch of b-o-l-o-g-n-a to string me along like a little lovesick puppy. It worked. He sure was good!! And about what someone said regarding their MM saying the love he felt for his wife was like how she (ow) felt about her dog. I can see how/why he would say/think that. Because you will always love your dog since they will always love you and be loyal to you no matter what you do to them. Makes perfect sense.
TogetherForever Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 I made a dog reference. "A dog will always go back to where he is fed". Meaning: He'll go to the one who takes care of him, loves him etc... If he's not getting that from the wife, he will get it elsewhere. And I'm not at all talking about sex.
IWALH Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 On his feelings for his W: "I love her like you love your dog" Hey TogetherForever, I wasn't referring to your comment (I actually didn't see that one until just now), but the one tomcat wrote above. Just wanted to clarify. But yours does make a lot of sense!!!
HappyAtLast Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 since you ladies are "MM bashing" tonight, may I add.... "I would never disrespect you by asking you to be my OW. I've left my wife, will you marry me?"
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 A few come to mind: We live like roommates. We have an 'arrangement'. We are separated, but live in the same house. I have slept on the couch for (insert time period here). He/She is seeing someone else too. We are only together for the children. I only married him/her because I was pressured to. I never knew happiness until you came along. You make me feel alive again. Give me until (insert day, month, year) to 'tie up loose ends'. I've never had an affair before you. I love my H/W like a family member, not as a lover. My past is with my H/W, my future is with you. I can't leave because H/W is seriously ill and needs me. You are my soul mate. I would love to have a baby with you. I am only going on this cruise/vacation/trip because I am forced to. When I'm not with you, I think of you all the time. ... blah, blah, blah, or in the words of Dorothy Parker: By the time you swear you're his, Shivering and sighing, And he vows his passion is Infinite, undying, Lady, make a note of this — One of you is lying.
HappyAtLast Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 since you ladies are "MM bashing" tonight, may I add.... "I would never disrespect you by asking you to be my OW. I've left my wife, will you marry me?" edited to add: The MM would be armed, of course, with divorce papers and a diamond ring worthy of the OW in question
GreenEyedLady Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 edited to add: The MM would be armed, of course, with divorce papers and a diamond ring worthy of the OW in question WOW HAL! I don't know if there's one big enough!:bunny:
raslers Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 I have found my soul mate in you She doesn't mean to me what you do (about OOW when I found out about her) What you and I have is different than what I've had with any other woman I will always love you You are the best I've ever had the list just goes on and on and on
TogetherForever Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 since you ladies are "MM bashing" tonight, may I add.... "I would never disrespect you by asking you to be my OW. I've left my wife, will you marry me?" I'm the only one here on the mm's side. And your "line" (truth as I will call it) is awesome HAL!!
movinon05 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 I DID buy you a birthday present. W found them in the tirewell under the spare tire! I didn't marry her because I was in love with her. I married her because I wanted children and I knew she would make a good mother. Didn't you hear? I was in the hospital. I had an appendectomy. Didn't you hear? My W threw all my stuff on the lawn, called the cops and she said I threatened her with my guns, and I spent the night in jail. There's no point in dating other men, because someday we would meet when "we" were remarried, look into each other's eyes, and all of this love would come flooding back. If you ever slept with another man, I'd know you didn't love me as much as I love you. I promise (fill in the blank). I was gonna... (fill in the blank). Ahhh. Nothing like going down memory lane.
justice Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 I agree...it sucked to be her...but at one point, it sucked to be you..too the W.... Now, thankfully, I'm the EX wife. But yes, it did suck to be me, but at least I didn't have to go to jail like the ow did when she broke two separate restraining orders not once but several times. My ex really did throw her under the bus and she still didn't get it!
precious1357 Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 How about, "your the love of my life". or "I'll be in touch as much as I can". or "I will always love you". or "No matter what or no matter who, my love will be with you always." need I go on...its really sickening anymore....
IWALH Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 How about, "your the love of my life". or "I'll be in touch as much as I can". or "I will always love you". or "No matter what or no matter who, my love will be with you always." need I go on...its really sickening anymore.... Ah, famous last words. His last words to me were "I'll come down and get you whenever you want me to" and "I love you, (my name)." Lovely. I really don't like thinking about him anymore... I should probably stop coming to this website, it just drudges up thoughts and feelings about the whole thing and I'd prefer to just keep that all at bay. I don't know...
stillafool Posted July 27, 2007 Posted July 27, 2007 Wow, the MM's lines are funny and all seem the same. They must have a handbook they go by. But, what can you expect if they lie to the woman they chose to love and honor before God, why wouldn't they lie to just an OW.
IWALH Posted July 30, 2007 Posted July 30, 2007 Haha, just can't keep me away!! This is probably the 3rd or 4th time I have said "this is my last post." I fully intended on the last one I made to be my real last post. Then I talked to my best friend for a few hours (she is the only one IRL who knows the WHOLE story.... she knows about every single thing that happened and believed his lies too.... he actually talked to her while he was down here for my daughter's party and told her he'd be seeing a lot more of her in the near future and told her how much he loved me ). Anyway, she is also the only one I have ever showed the letter and note xMM wrote me. I told her about this website and all that was being said and she suggested that I post the letter here (which, as I mentioned earlier, i was already thinking about) to show you just how seriously xMM was manipulating me. So I will. You can see, straight from the horse's mouth, exactly what xMM was telling me all the time. He wrote me this letter after I first broke things off with him and told him I thought he was lying to me and didn't want to see him again. And this only vaguely TOUCHES on everything he told me. The second time around he was telling me much much more... otherwise I wouldn't have fallen for it again. Some of it is smudged because he said he was "crying" when he wrote it. I have blacked out any inappropriate language so as not to violate any rules. Page 1 http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v316/sillymoco/img046.jpg Page 2 http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v316/sillymoco/letterpage2edit.jpg Page 3 http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v316/sillymoco/lettereditpage3.jpg During the second time around, the only thing he wrote to me (in writing, he did write me several emails/IMs as well) was the following small note. The horrible thing about this note, though, is that it was written on his wife's birthday. We were all hanging out at the pool and he went back home to make sandwiches, leaving us there. When he came back and we were all leaving he said "Oh it looks like you got a ticket! Let's go check it out!" Then he walked over to my car with me and I looked at the "ticket," which was a note written on the back of what looked to be a grocery list. I couldn't believe he did that.... his kids were just several yards away waiting for him in his truck. All of you who find me disgusting for partaking in the awful things I did with him can't blame ME for this one, can you? I edited out the "bad word." http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v316/sillymoco/noteedit.jpg For the record, I never did see him the next morning at 5 because I ended up not staying at the same hotel I was staying at before (where he came over earlier that day and had sex with me, early in the morning before anyone woke up.... yes that is awful, but it's what I did and I can't change it). So there you have it. You want to see lines that married men say? Those letters are all straight from the horse's mouth. Is it not apparant how manipulative he was with me? No, I am not a victim. I hold myself fully accountable for my actions. I should have waited until I saw divorce papers before doing anything with him. But can you not at least SEE how I thought he was being genuine? Now. I am done. I'm sure this might cause some people to flame me for whatever reason. But I needed to get this one last thing off of my chest before I could be completely done with the whole situation and leave it and everything involved with it (including this website). I never posted it before because I always felt some urge to "protect him." But I am done with him and that family and everything to do with them. Forever. I told xMM I would never show his letter to anyone unless I was 100% sure I was completely done with him forever. Guess what? Call me crazy, tell me I haven't moved on, call or tell me whatever your heart desires. I won't be here to read it anymore. I really am moving on with my life. This past month has been the best! Since xMM has been out of my life it's like I have finally woken up to reality again. I am the happiest I have been since before I started talking to him again. I have been bettering myself regarding my religion and school and I quit the awful job I was working. I've been doing SO many things with my daughter and friends. I am back to being myself and an awesome mother (I was always a pretty awesome mother, I just almost made a really bad decision if I would have moved up there for him). My life really is great now and it's only getting better. Nothing anybody on a silly website says can take this happiness away. I still need to leave this site, though, because I don't want to think about that situation at all ever again and this just drudges up old memories. I am, once and for all, washing my hands clean of it all. Those who were supportive of me, contact WWIU if you still want to keep in touch or want advice/support about your own situations. Take care, everyone.
Trimmer Posted July 30, 2007 Posted July 30, 2007 What other lines have you heard and in what situations? I want to be prepared. thanks vivi: what are you preparing for? EDIT: Cancel that - I see you are involved with a MM... Self-evident.
patientguy Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 When I was the MM I told her that I felt like I was cheating on her and being unfaithful when I slept with my wife. I was being honest. When I was the MM I told her I was in a dead marriage and I didn't love my wife. I was being honest. When I was the MM I told her I was in love with her. I was honest. When I was the MM I told her I had to stick around for my kid. I was lying. When I was the MM I told her I wasn't financially able to separate. I was lying. I finally left for myself because I realized what the hell am I doing in this emotionless relationship. I never left for my OW. They can only leave for themselves.
KATANYA Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 "You make me feel like I'm invicible" "I wished it were you that I was taking on vacation" "I would have met you but I could'nt find an excuse to get away" "I would be devastated if you met someone else" "I thought about buying you something" "You are everything that she isn't" "I've never had sex like this before" "I've never done this before" and I could go on and on
East of Jupiter Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 Drum roll please ...... "I can't keep up with you sexually." As if having sex three times a day while caring for four small children, ten loads of laundry and cleaning up dog vomit was my idea. @@
Onelife Posted July 31, 2007 Posted July 31, 2007 I will go to the end of the Earth, move the mountain, swim across the Atlantic ocean for you...just to be with you. Oh and how about this one? "Never say never!"
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