Cobra_X30 Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 Emma, please dump this guy. You were not bieng greedy and the fact that he made you think that you are just proves how evil and manipulating this guy is.
Lishy Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 Emma dont give him the time of day now. I guess you love him and that he is a nice guy in lots of ways but you cannot rely on him and so what is the point? I wish you all the best though.
curiousnycgirl Posted July 26, 2007 Posted July 26, 2007 Emma - I've just sat and read through all the vitriole on this thread - and for that I am sorry. To answer your question, no you were not being a greedy bitch. He offered to help you out, and did not deliver. When you followed up with him, he got ugly. There is no excuse. You were already in a vulnerable position (freaking out about money) and he chooses that moment to say such awful things? I don't care that he apologized - his behaviour is unacceptable and not something you should want in your or your daughter's life. How can you believe him when he says he loves you? Actions speak much louder than words. He made a committment to the woman he claims to love, did not come through on it - and caused you more angst. That is not love. Although I regret all the other crappy posts - having read them and your responses - it is clear that you have a pattern of chosing men who are abusive (I would consider this guy verbally abusive). You and your daughter deserve so much more. Stop this cycle. That will probably mean taking a break from men for a while. Getting yourself to a point where YOU recognize that you deserve more (doesn't matter what I think) - once you reach that point you will no longer entertain dating some one who could treat you so poorly. Good luck to you!
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