prolifik20 Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 Alright so this is my first real post on this site. I've been going through a bunch of conflict with my ex/not so ex girlfriend. We lived together for over a year and then recently (about 2 months ago) she moved up North to go to school for about 6 months. I knew it was going to be rough and that it was going to take a lot but I still gave it a chance. We were up and down for the past two months. We saw each other twice and about 3 weeks ago we started the nose dive if you will. I went up to visit her for my birthday and when we parted and she went back to her home and I went back to mine things started getting strange. She started saying how we fought to much and that maybe she needed some time to think about things. I wasn't really that shocked but it hurt like crazy. I played the whole chase the girl/ I'll do whatever it takes to win you back approach and well needless to say it didn't travel far. She said even though she wanted the time she still wanted to be with me and yada yada yada. We recently decided that now wasn't the right time for us and that maybe it would be later on down the road. I'll admit for a while I was doing all the contacting and that has recently changed. We ended up having a real long talk a day or two ago. We both determined that we do love each other. She said she didn't want me hooking up with anyone else and that this wasn't about other guys for her either. I believe her but there still is a lot of conflict for me. She doesn't want the title she says because of the stress that has come with the relationship. She has been calling me almost everyday for the past week or so and I've asked her several times what her plans are for after school and whether she was going to come back or vice versa and I usually get the I don't know answer. I don't know what to do at this point. I don't want to keep asking. I love her more than anything but I need to know that there is some sort of light at the end of the tunnel and she won't give it to me. What do you guys think? What would you do?
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