laRubiaBonita Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 I was in the car with my current BF, going downtown, on Friday. Guess who I see going the opposite direction? The EX,whom i was with for 3.5 years, the one that I redecorated the house, after I found out he was planning to cheat again. I have not actually seen him in over a year…… I have often wondered what reaction seeing him would have on me… but on Friday, he was driving his car and his fingers were up his nose! Basically he was doing the same old thing he had always done when driving, picking his nose like no one could see his. My reaction: I laughed, and I thanked my starts that I was not with that loser…… he still looked exactly the same, he still picks his nose like there is will be no tomorrow… he is still the same. I am so relieved. Then last night I dreamt the ex was with some friends at my apt. I ignored him, but it seemed like he was always trying to get to me to say something, and each time I would walk away.
BeyondThePale Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 Congratulations! I can't wait to get to that point! That gives me hope. I know when I've seen ex's doing ridiculous stuff that I hated it sort of makes me happy I don't have to be around it anymore!
Art_Critic Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 Alright... no more sharpie markers and crunched potato chips Did you try to at least spit out the window ?
Author laRubiaBonita Posted July 23, 2007 Author Posted July 23, 2007 Alright... no more sharpie markers and crunched potato chips Did you try to at least spit out the window ? nah... i wouldn't waste my spit on him, i swap it with a greater guy now!
AriaIncognito Posted July 24, 2007 Posted July 24, 2007 Funny how the weird stuff helps our healing. I found posts on the internet from my ex, basically him recounting going to strip clubs (in the times we were broken up) and also massage parlors that have "happy endings" (back when he was living with his then gf. Makes me see him for the person he is. Desperate and lonely. Me, I'd rather wait for a boyfriend to do get me off, or to go to a strip club with, rather than go alone to one. I realize it's more a male thing to do, but the fact that he did it weekly during one of our brief (3 week) breakups, pisses me off. Gross. And i had sex with him after that! Ugh!
Jmina Posted July 24, 2007 Posted July 24, 2007 thankyou for that post it gave me hope too.... my ex picks her nose alot also.... hahahah i cant wait to get to that point.. thankyou...actually it helped me jmina
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