tom27 Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 I've been seeing this girl for awhile, I don't think you'd call us "going out" just yet, but we've gone on several date-scenerio situations. She has definitely been giving me signs telling me she wants me to kiss her, but I'm nervous that I'll mess it up. We're both under 18, but she has more kissing experience than me. I just want to come out on our first kiss as a confident guy who can kiss well. Could I get some advice here?
underpants Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 Awe, Well, you could practice with your hand a little. I see what you are saying. The leap in confidence or let her guide you dilemma. If you dive in, just first put your arm around her waist and ...coax her in...if she puts up resistance simply..let go and let it go. If you get ...there... let your lips meet and ...do not shoot you tounge out first....let her do that. However, after a 10-15 second kiss you are allowed to gently and lovingly suck a tiny bit on the lower lip as you pull away and say..."Can we see each other again?".
Storyrider Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 I think it is better to hold back a bit, as opposed to being overly wet and sloppy. Start out with gentle kisses, and on the dryer side, with less tongue. And let her guide you a bit if she is the more experienced.
Tyra Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 I agree with you Storyrider. If you kiss her sloppy, fast and out of control, then more than likely that'll be your first and last time kissing her.
dbtmarley Posted July 23, 2007 Posted July 23, 2007 The first kiss.... Just take your time man... Here is something I try to break the ice. When holding her hand proceed into a little game of thumb wrestling. Let her win a couple of times. Then tell her wait we need to have a reward for the winner. Tell her, If I (you) win you have to kiss me... If you (she) win I have to kiss you. Her response will let you know if she is game or not. If she starts to try extra hard you know she wants to kiss you as badly as you want to kiss her. I know it sounds stupid and juvenile, but I am 38 and you would not believe how it works!!!
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