camerashy Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I have a very simple question but can't seem to get a simple answer. I went on vacation about 3 weeks ago, and met a great guy (a native who didn't speak much English and I didn't speak much Spanish.) When I left for the airport he gave me his home phone#, cell phone#, and his home address. Based on that I figured he wanted to keep in contact. I e-mailed him about a week later, just a casual "hey, thanks for the great time" and sent some pics. No response...it has been 2 weeks. I'm so frustrated with the no response thing. I would be perfectly fine if he e-mailed and said he didn't want to stay in contact. Why give a girl all that info. if you have no intentions of reciprocating? Should I e-mail one more time or just forget about it...I don't want to look needy. I would love to continue a friendship with this guy. I'm really not expecting anything more.
oppath Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 Post your photos on flickr or someplace and email the link. why do guys do this? Why do girls give out their contact information, or say "give me yours" (and NOT in response to me asking for theirs, initiated on their part) and then not respond or contact? It happens to all of us, male and female. It's not a big deal. One thing I learned long ago is not to make a big deal about getting a number because it meant dick. It didn't mean the girl would commit to a date. The better my skills, the more likely it would happen, but not necessarily. Big whoop.
Author camerashy Posted July 23, 2007 Author Posted July 23, 2007 I guess you're right. I guess I would NEVER give my information out if I didn't want someone to contact me...especially 2 separate phone numbers, an e-mail AND a home address??? This is what really leaves me dumbfounded. The guy gave me 3 different backups? Oh well, for future reference...When a guy gives you every possible way to contact him, (and I didn't ask for it) that doesn't necessarily mean he wants to be contacted! Ahh, the games people play.
lostinatrance19 Posted July 24, 2007 Posted July 24, 2007 I'm not sure about him, but I know I rarely check my e-mail.. maybe he hasn't seen it yet?
directx Posted July 24, 2007 Posted July 24, 2007 You know, i know I dont have much to go on, but I just think he is a playa or just fishes a lot this way and caught a fish in the meantime that he is busy with. Just a hunch
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