lonely_blue Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 my girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago,we had been with each other for just over a year, she says she still has feelings for me, but does not have the energy at the moment to try and keep our relationship going. she is going off to university in a couple of months and doesnt want have the pressure of this relationship aswell. I love her and have looked for jobs and houses to be closer to her. she says she doesnt want to prolong it any further and hurting me more, and wouldnt want it on her conciense if we split up after i moved. should i contact her and how long should i wait to do so?
Tyra Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I would contact her.But she may tell you the same thing.
Author lonely_blue Posted July 22, 2007 Author Posted July 22, 2007 I would contact her.But she may tell you the same thing. but how long should i wait. i was going to give it 2 weeks so that we both had time to think about things, then try and have proper talk about things, and see if she still feels the same way.
Touche Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 I think the ball should be in her court now. Wait until she contacts you. If she doesn't, then you'll have your answer.
Tyra Posted July 22, 2007 Posted July 22, 2007 but how long should i wait. i was going to give it 2 weeks so that we both had time to think about things, then try and have proper talk about things, and see if she still feels the same way. Maybe a week. Cause you don't want to wait too long. But if that's the time period that you need, then just wait until two weeks. But you dont want it to be like, two weeks come, and if she feels the same way, you're going to feel like " I knew I should've called her sooner". You know. Dont wait for her to call, because it isn't promising. But ya'll been together for over a year, so I don't know why she don't want to work on the relationship. See this is one reason why good guys go gay, cause women don't know how to treat them right. Not saying that you are going to go gay, o.k. LOL!!!!!
Author lonely_blue Posted July 22, 2007 Author Posted July 22, 2007 i know shes going back to parents next weekend so i will just see how the next week goes and see what happens. when she gets back i will see how she is and if she is able to talk about things.
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