Myspace?! Rants?

[FormerNiceGuy]

All right. I have questions or rather..RANTS...about Myspace.

 

The first group of questions goes out to the guys.

 

The second group of questions goes out to the women.

 

I don't want to generalize, because that's unfair, but I'll just point out things that really irk me about Myspace.

 

Ok..let's start with the guys. Why are there countless....millions...tons of chumpy, loserish comments from these guys that post on some hot girl's page. They post all these comments like a bunch of chumps.

 

It just screams of desperation.

 

They don't stand a chance with this hotty and all they are doing is just feeding her ego. And for some god damn reason, they keep sending these compliments and all that. It just tingles my spine.

 

It even happens amongst "female friends". There's some hot female friend. The loser guy posts a comment on her page and keeps complimenting her...

 

Why?

 

Comments like: "you're so beautiful...blah blah..how come you don't call me anymore."...etc.

 

Comments like: "thought i would stop by and say hello and hope you have a great weekend"

 

Comments like: "you are one beautiful girl vanessa lol real talk..well anyways..take care. "

 

Comments like: "Hey put me on your top because I have you on my top okay. "

 

Or those cheesy pictures..

 

Comments like: "Thanks 4 the add, by the way you'll very hot!!!! "

 

Or cheesy poems...you've seen them.

 

If you really read every single one of those comments by these guys...you can smell desperation.

 

You can smell a desire for self-approval.

 

You can tell these men don't have respect for themselves.

 

You can smell the formula of losers.

 

When are these men going to realize that this is NOT the way to get a girl to fall for you.

 

Psst..

 

I'll tell you a secret.

 

Women resent guys who keep complimenting them all the time. There are a ton of losers out there who keeps complimenting her on how pretty she is...and she associates YOU with those losers. Step out from the crowd. Step out from those chumps who keep worshipping her.

 

 

Be different. Switch the game around.

 

You never place yourself below anyone. And these men are just desperate losers. You NEVER treat a woman like she is higher than you. AND You never treat her lower than you. You treat her like an equal. But these men don't treat these women like equals. They have subconciously placed these women on a pedestal...and it's sickening to see it.

 

Never, never, never be afraid to approach a female. To reiterate: they all have the same body parts, and they are all composed of Carbon, Hydrogen, Oxygen, Nitrogen, and trace elements. There isn't a single woman on Earth who is "above" you, no matter what her affectations and social pretenses

 

Don't treat her like she's better than you. Treat her like she's the same as you. Don't treat her like she's worse than you. Treat her as an equal. Don't be like all those dumb men out there who keep worshipping that girl and NEVER SEE her in thier arms.

 

 

RANT finished

 

And my question to the women. Why are you dressed that way on myspace? What's the real reason you do this? Do you this to get attention? Do you this because you feel insecure about how you look that you need self-affirmation?

 

Maybe I'm overanalyzing...but a girl who places 100 pictures of herself...seems rather vain.

[Hestia]

I dont have an account on myspace but I think I can answer your question by putting myself on their shoes. I doubt that women who expose their attributes online are insecure. Actually I'm pretty sure they know what kind of power they have over men and they use it. Well... why not? It clearly works if there are so many guys calling them beautiful and such. Is it vain? Yes. Do they want attention from men? Hell yes.

 

Besides, on a site like myspace, what were you expecting? Most people go there to meet dates. What else could you use to draw attention but to post hot sexy pictures? Women know that men respond to that kind of visual stimulation.

Many guys do the same by the way.

 

And I agree with your rant to men.

[McFadden]

That is annoying..maybe that stuff is the reason some people hate MySpace so much. I think a lot of the loser comments are on some girl's page who is probably fake and has like 5,000 friends. I'm sure these men know that it will get them nowhere, they can see how many comments the girl already has. I guess they have low self esteem so they figure thats the only way they can have any contact with a hot girl or something (which is kind of sad.)

 

My friends and I use myspace a lot but kind of avoid that scene by mostly only associating with people we know on there. However there is one guy that posts on all my pictures and writes that I'm beautiful and all the stereotypical stuff, but we both know we are never going to see each other because he lives in Europe so its just a joke..but I do like him and I guess I like the attention in small doses, so I can see why some girls would put up so many pictures just to get more attention. I only have a few pictures and they aren't sexy, I'm not even in some of them though.

[Chinook]

And my question to the women. Why are you dressed that way on myspace? What's the real reason you do this? Do you this to get attention? Do you this because you feel insecure about how you look that you need self-affirmation? Maybe I'm overanalyzing...but a girl who places 100 pictures of herself...seems rather vain.

Um, maybe there's something wrong with me but when I did have a myspace account, my picture was of my car! Also, can't comment on the bloke comments as I never got any comments like that.

[McFadden]

Um, maybe there's something wrong with me but when I did have a myspace account, my picture was of my car! Also, can't comment on the bloke comments as I never got any comments like that.

 

that was also my default picture for a while (well my car, not your car) but when I got a new computer setup I changed it to a picture of that itself with MySpace displayed on the screen..lame. But that European guy still posted that it was sexy, I guess everything I post is sexy to him.

[Chinook]

I guess everything I post is sexy to him.

hee hee! I think you're right. For the myspace account I had, I used an email address that I've had for years and an old boyfriend from 20 years ago found me on there and did the insistent 'add me to your friends' list. I had no intention of it...but ended up closing the account in the end. People are too nosey these days. It was fun for a while but it's hassle I'd rather not have. I have a blog where I can vent my thoughts and I come here too. That's enough for me.

[Lizzie60]

I agree with Hestia...

 

I dont have an account on myspace. I don't like those sites.

 

I also agree that women who expose their attributes online are not insecure. I think it's quite the opposite actually, the ones that are NOT hot are insecure therefore don't post their pics.

 

And they have power and they know it. They like the attention, of course who doesn't?

 

What is it to you anyway? If you were a hottie and would post your pic and get tons of attention, you'd like it... I feel some jealousy here...

[madgun68]

Personally, I have no idea why people (guys included) do those things. Maybe they think that if they cast enough lines, they'll eventually hook something.

 

I only use MySpace to keep track of friends and what-not. I've had several old highschool friends contact me on there, so I do find it useful.. But aside from that, I don't bother searching for new people to meet anymore. I've tried contacting a few people on there, and nothing ever pans out. (Waste of time in my opinion.)

[xEmoxOtakux]

If a guy commented my girl on Myspace I would hunt him down